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- Arpikarhu - 01-24-2002
even better obsession songs:
1. i want you- elvis costello
2. every breath you take- the police
- Maynard - 01-24-2002
Quote:These days, the slightest complication and I'm out. I don't want to argue with the chick I'm dating, I don't want any drama or games. I have enough problems of my own, I don't need some broad giving me grief.NO relationship will be without conflict K1d. But if you can work through the conflict without killing each other or go insane, then you have finally found someone truly special.
- Arpikarhu - 01-24-2002
Quote:NO relationship will be without conflict K1d. But if you can work through the conflict without killing each other or go insane, then you have finally found someone truly special.That and a visit from the love doctor on the next Oprah.
- Sluggo - 01-24-2002
I also had the older divorced woman thing happen to me...
She told me right from the start that it was just for the summer...
Then she started telling me she loved me...
Summer came to an end...I was confused as to what I should do...
We parted ways...But I don't go a single day that she doesn't cross my mind...
My wife, on the other hand...
Is like fucking heroin...
I keep hoping I'll O.D. cause I Definately can't get myself to quit.
- Sean Cold - 01-24-2002
Sluggo Wrote:I also had the older divorced woman thing happen to me...That has to be the best comparison I have seen equated with a woman in a long time, you get a cookie for that one. :roltflmao:
My wife, on the other hand...
Is like fucking heroin...
I keep hoping I'll O.D. cause I Definately can't get myself to quit.
- Arpikarhu - 01-24-2002
Sean Cold Wrote:i got a cookie once, until AM fucked it all upQuote:I also had the older divorced woman thing happen to me...That has to be the best comparison I have seen equated with a woman in a long time, you get a cookie for that one. :roltflmao:
My wife, on the other hand...
Is like fucking heroin...
I keep hoping I'll O.D. cause I Definately can't get myself to quit.
- Maynard - 01-24-2002
Yeah, well I got anal for half a cookie once.
- Arpikarhu - 01-24-2002
Quote:Yeah, well I got anal for half a cookie once.i assume you were paying the half a cookie to get anal
Edited By Arpikarhu on Jan. 24 2002 at 3:33
- Spitfire - 01-24-2002
Quote:These days, the slightest complication and I'm out.Quote:NO relationship will be without conflict K1d. But if you can work through the conflict without killing each other or go insane, then you have finally found someone truly special.
Yup, you're not at all ready for a relationship. Anything good requires work. I've been with my man since I was 17, we've both grown-up, had life-changing experiences, and went through a lot of fucking rough patches along the way. I don't know why we're still together, I guess we're addicted to each other. Now, instead of long, drawn-out battles, we bicker and bitch at each other for sport...or just have a quick 5-minute screaming, pushing, throwing things...then, the best part about fighting: the make-up/angry sex afterward.
- Kid A - 01-24-2002
Relationships without conflict are possible, it's called communication. If you are careful with what you say because you are afraid to show your true emotions, you are not in a relationship. These are the types of conflicts I have no time for. I believe in being totally honest with someone you are interested in, from the beginning. Unfortunately, women are far too manipulative to deal with a relationship in an honest and forthright manner. Thus then, I will continue to date women for a few weeks and then ditch them when I find that they cannot communicate openly. It's fine with me, I really don't care.
I mean, yeah gettin' laid frequently is pretty fuckin' nice, but the baggage that comes with it is not worth it, to me.
- Arpikarhu - 01-24-2002
Quote:went through a lot of fucking rough patchestry a lube. i hear astro-glide is good
- Sluggo - 01-24-2002
Quote:try a lube. i hear astro-glide is goodArpi...
It seems that we're finally getting some good, at least semi-intelligent topics going...And you can't stop with the fucking around.
:no, really, fuck off:
- Arpikarhu - 01-24-2002
Sluggo Wrote:boo hooQuote:try a lube. i hear astro-glide is goodArpi...
It seems that we're finally getting some good, at least semi-intelligent topics going...And you can't stop with the fucking around.
:no, really, fuck off:
- Keyser Soze - 01-24-2002
Has anyone ever cheated on someone and they find out and you were still able to patch the relationship up over time? Do you all feel that once that trust is broken once it can never be found again?
- Arpikarhu - 01-24-2002
Keyser Soze Wrote:Has anyone ever cheated on someone and they find out and you were still able to patch the relationship up over time? Do you all feel that once that trust is broken once it can never be found again?i have been on both sides and it never works. when i cheated, even though i meant to be faithful from that point on , she was always questioning me about my movements till it drove me crazy. plus the dam had been broken and my eye kept wandering. when a girl i dated cheated on me i never trusted her again.
- Keyser Soze - 01-24-2002
Arpikarhu Wrote:Yeah, i've been on both sides as well. Its sad but true but it never seems to work again.Quote:Has anyone ever cheated on someone and they find out and you were still able to patch the relationship up over time? Do you all feel that once that trust is broken once it can never be found again?i have been on both sides and it never works. when i cheated, even though i meant to be faithful from that point on , she was always questioning me about my movements till it drove me crazy. plus the dam had been broken and my eye kept wandering. when a girl i dated cheated on me i never trusted her again.
- Sluggo - 01-24-2002
Yes...It has happened to me...I forgave...
It's been pushed back...But not forgotten...
The only time I feel untrusting...
Is when I'm feeling beaten down...For whatever reason...
- Keyser Soze - 01-24-2002
Sluggo Wrote:Yes...It has happened to me...I forgave...I'd have to walk a thousand miles in your shoes to understand how you have been able to forgive her.
It's been pushed back...But not forgotten...
The only time I feel untrusting...
Is when I'm feeling beaten down...For whatever reason...
- Grumpy - 01-24-2002
Obsessions are ugly when they go really really wrong. I've dumped 2 ex gf's cuz they were totally obsessed. A month or into each of the relationships, they were both talking marriage and kids. WTF?
On the other hand, I've been obsessed with 2 people in my life. One I'm over. Talk about an addiction. We only dated for 6 months but 3 years of my life was wasted on this chick back in college.
My latest obsession has been going on for over 9 years now. I got so obsessed with her, I married her. Who would'a knew?
- Spitfire - 01-24-2002
Came really close a couple of times..but I couldn't do it. I couldn't break Mr. Spit's trust....and he lets me get away with A LOT
My theory on cheating is--If you wanna be with people other than the one you're with, then why are you with that person in the first place? Break up with them, then fuck whoever you want
PS :love: the Sluggo
Edited By Spitfire on Jan. 24 2002 at 4:01