Should you judge your mate on their sexual history

[Keyser Soze]

Much Like Holden flipping out about Alyssa's "fingercuffs" incident in high school, have you been unfairly judged or judged your own mate unfairly due to something you've admitted to or someone told them that you had participated in?

Do you think its fair? Would you think of them differently?

[Ken'sPen]

so far this transparent attempt to ID both the uptight, and loose women on the board is being highly ignored.

[Keyser Soze]

actually its a transparent attempt to get some suggestions on how to handle this very situation i may or may not be involved in.

[Ken'sPen]

hittin on Galt's ex?

[Mad]

It's going over a lot better then that "poetry" thingamabob.

And judge not or you shall be judged.



Edited By Mad on 1059597738

[Jack]

:-(

[Ken'sPen]

jack jack jack
is a poetry hack


what do I win?

[Keyser Soze]

no, ill post the IM from the person i question. THIS IS NOT ANOTHER BOARD MEMBER, for you over-reacting, emotionally unstable, drama queens out there.

KeyserSoze (3:16:27 PM): ****** is in a hotel?
****** (3:16:34 PM): yeah
KeyserSoze (3:16:47 PM): where?
****** (3:17:01 PM): chicago
KeyserSoze (3:17:07 PM): nice
****** (3:17:11 PM): was hoping tonight was your night?
KeyserSoze (3:17:22 PM): seize the opportunity
****** (3:17:30 PM): if it was a hotel near by, possibly
KeyserSoze (3:17:38 PM): thats what i was thinking
****** (3:17:57 PM): chicago is only a short flight away
****** (3:18:01 PM): might be worth it
KeyserSoze (3:18:17 PM): thats true
KeyserSoze (3:18:22 PM): only 16 hours by car
****** (3:18:33 PM): by then she'll be on her way back
****** (3:18:38 PM): fly
KeyserSoze (3:18:58 PM): oh, then i better fly out afterall
****** (3:19:40 PM): i can check flights for you
****** (3:19:50 PM): i'm not doing anything else
KeyserSoze (3:20:31 PM): jet blue!
****** (3:20:45 PM): you would have to come to JFK though
KeyserSoze (3:20:49 PM): i know
KeyserSoze (3:20:50 PM): sucks
KeyserSoze (3:20:54 PM): i love jet blue
****** (3:21:00 PM): you can stop by, see me for a little and then go see her
****** (3:21:02 PM): works perfect
KeyserSoze (3:21:09 PM): wow
KeyserSoze (3:21:21 PM): thats would even better
****** (3:21:48 PM): well leave now then
KeyserSoze (3:21:59 PM): threesome?
****** (3:22:08 PM): no
KeyserSoze (3:22:11 PM): :-(
****** (3:22:13 PM): only people like you do that
KeyserSoze (3:22:23 PM): im hurt
****** (3:22:26 PM): hurt
KeyserSoze (3:22:33 PM): thats a horrible thing to say to someone!
****** (3:22:46 PM): that i won't or that only people like you do that
KeyserSoze (3:22:54 PM): only people like me do that
****** (3:23:11 PM): hey - you were the one who drank during i never
****** (3:23:17 PM): i remember things
KeyserSoze (3:23:27 PM): :-(
KeyserSoze (3:23:34 PM): i was young and i needed the money
****** (3:23:42 PM): you can stop now
KeyserSoze (3:23:49 PM): ha
****** (3:24:11 PM): would you think differently of a girl that had one
****** (3:24:21 PM): or like her better for it
KeyserSoze (3:24:23 PM): i should have paid more attention during that game, i have no material to bust you on
****** (3:24:31 PM): there isn't much
KeyserSoze (3:24:38 PM): i think theres benefits on both sides
****** (3:24:53 PM): would you want your wife to have had one
KeyserSoze (3:25:06 PM): with 2 guys?
****** (3:25:10 PM): either
KeyserSoze (3:25:18 PM): definitely not with 2 guys
****** (3:25:47 PM): but 2 girls is ok
KeyserSoze (3:26:20 PM): yes
****** (3:26:55 PM): i see
KeyserSoze (3:28:11 PM): what do you think about that?
****** (3:28:24 PM): not into it
KeyserSoze (3:28:48 PM): no, i mean do you think less of someone who has?
****** (3:29:18 PM): not necessarily less
KeyserSoze (3:31:15 PM): not necessarily?
****** (3:31:41 PM): meaning, not sure i would use the word less of someone
****** (3:31:44 PM): maybe differently
KeyserSoze (3:31:56 PM): differently, how?
****** (3:32:38 PM): i don't know, just differently. not really bad or good

[Ken'sPen]

ahhhhhhh
so this is a thinly veiled I had a threesome,
I have a woman who wants me,
aren't I a stud thread.....
thnx.

[Jack]

The past is the past. We all stumble accross the blocks that make up the road of life from time to time.

Look to the future. Is what they did in the past really what matters? Or is what is going to happen in the future more important?

To me, tomorrow is more important than yesterday.

[Goatweed]

however, if your partner had unsafe sex yesterday, and you have it with her today, you might not see a tomorrow.

[Keyser Soze]

Thanks Jack, but thats sounds a little too Hallmark cardish to me. I need someone firmly rooted in reality to give me a answer.

Ken, besides that, can you give me any advice?

[Mad]

Why does it matter? If you're there to get your rocks off and that's all you want then go for it.

Sluts need lovin' too.

Now, if you're thinking about getting "serious", I would suggest you don't even go there. After all I'm sure you've got lots of dirt you wouldn't want exposed, right?

[Keyser Soze]

thats the problem, im getting serious and the dirt is already out. which is the reason for this thread.

[Mad]

thats the problem, im getting serious and the dirt is already out. which is the reason for this thread.

Well if it's out there you might have to do some spin control to handle it.

If the feelings are mutual and strong enough she should be able to over look youthful indiscretions, hopefully.

You will have to deal with jealous twits who might want to fuck things up for you. It's part of human nature.

[Keyser Soze]

is it really a youthful indiscretion? does it sound like shes freaked out over it?

[Mad]

KeyserSoze (311 PM): what do you think about that?
****** (324 PM): not into it
KeyserSoze (348 PM): no, i mean do you think less of someone who has?
****** (318 PM): not necessarily less
KeyserSoze (315 PM): not necessarily?
****** (341 PM): meaning, not sure i would use the word less of someone
****** (344 PM): maybe differently
KeyserSoze (356 PM): differently, how?
****** (338 PM): i don't know, just differently. not really bad or good

Sounds like they're indifferent about the whole thing. Don't harp on it and it to shall pass.

[Keyser Soze]

thanks :thumbs-up:

what do you think she meant by "differently" ?

has anyone else thought differently about their mate after hearing about their past, differently how?

[The Sleeper]

well it looked like she was blushing when she said that, and at the end she semed to tell you to talk to the hand. It might be a sore spot with her.

[Mad]

thanks :thumbs-up:

what do you think she meant by "differently" ?

has anyone else thought differently about their mate after hearing about their past, differently how?

Now you're sounding insecure.

You may be "tested" with either a good friend of hers or a complete stranger. DON'T FUCK UP!

Decline all offers of quickies and other "deviant" behavior, it is a test.

If you pass it, life will be good.