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[Gooch]

nah, don't think it was to the level you depict. i understand your argument and take on it, but i think her point was a bit more just knowing "the system" and how men are, and simply didn't want to bother. you got merely her opinion on it b/c she found you to be one of "those guys".

i was on Match for a few years (about a year after the surgery). Went on quite a few dates. Got laid from it. Rarely was a relationship, and when it was, never amounted to much. When I met my girlfriend, I had left Match. Most there ARE damaged goods, but thats the thing about dating...we are all damaged goods with bad experiences, issues and whatnot. Thing about MATCH is the photos are always their VERY best photos, and sometimes taken years ago. Match isn't bad, but it's no different than a bar, and that girl who IM'd you thought it would be different.

Women and men are all nuts. One day, there will be a nut that is palatable to you. Obviously, hearing that litany from her, whether in an IM or at a bar, was a turnoff. Had you played it right, you could have gotten in her pants anyway. She wanted to hear substance and debate.