He's a nigger! A nigger, look, there's a nigger!

[Bloody Anus]

Black Person A can call Black Person B and a nigger and and Black Person B will be absolutely positive that Black Person A doesn't think all black people are stupid, subhuman, and should be exterminated from the planet.

Despite all the stuttering, I'm pretty sure I somehow get what you're trying to say.

But if something is offensive, it's offensive. The source should not have anything to do with it.

If Woman A calls Woman B a cunt, Woman B will be absolutely positive that Woman A doesn't think all women should be in the kitchen 24/7, should not have the right to vote, should not be allowed to drive, have a job, etc.

When Man A calls Woman B a cunt, all those things are up for interpretation.