12-19-2002, 04:15 AM
Teenweek, my best advice to you is just be strong for your wife. I think being strong is the only thing that got my girlfriend thru the loss of her mom. Just be there, love her and support her. I've learned that words sometimes mean nothing. The best you can do is kiss your wife, tell her you love her and listen when she vents. This is better than anything you can actually say, aside from you telling your wife you love her. Don't be sorry, this is what this board is for, letting out all the shit in our lives. Aggravation and what not. I also suggest a few backrubs and footrubs, worked well for my girlfriend and I am with you when you say it doesn't make you feel like a good husband. Anything I tried didn't feel like it was enough, but I'm sure she'll appreciate it just as well. :bouncer: :banana:
We're all going to Hell and I'm driving the bus!!!!