The what if thread.... - and how to cope with the what if,,

[Arpikarhu]

This is quite bad. You should consider talking with your minister or a trained proffesional. You must of course first tell your girlfriend the truth. honesty is the cornerstone of any relationship. I hope that you have learned from this experience. Remember, one cannot be worthy of trust if one is not trustworthy. I hope this helped. Peace be with you