The what if thread.... - and how to cope with the what if,,

[PollyannaFlower46]

I'm with Becky on this one...coming from the perspective of the girl who's been cheated on one too many times, I think it would be best for you to tell her rather than her finding out some other way...because trust me she will. Tell her why it happened (she pissed you off, you're insecure because you've been cheated on in the past) and tell her that while you were doing it, as bad as it sounds you finally understood how much she meant to you. Its gonna make things bad, but you might as well be honest because there is nothing worse than a relationship based on lies.