Looks - Just How Important Are They?

[Gooch]

I can't speak for everyone but, lately I've found myself much more attracted to women who would not be considered beautiful as far as the status quo.

Like I stated earlier, it's not what you have but what you do with it. You don't have to be perfect, but work what you have. Don't wear a belly shirt if you have a belly. Don't wear a white tanktop with a black bra. If it looks like you put your make-up on with a spray can, unh uh, you're out. I've met girls both thick and thin that were beautiful in their own right.

But, like others have said, it ain't all about the looks. If I can't have a conversation with a girl, it's over. If I find myself thinking of other shit while she's talking, that's usually my cue to cut my losses.

I'm with you on this one...exactly. They say you can't fuck a personality...but let me tell you, after 30 some-odd years, you get more of a grip on what you want and appreciate in a woman, and it's much more than just looks. You can fuck looks, but god help you try to have a conversation after, etc.