Cheating!

[PollyannaFlower46]

Regardless of how bad you say you would feel if you cheated, telling her would only make things worse. Even though you may want to come clean and redeem yourself, you'd only break her heart. Knowing that you've been with someone else is going to replay in her mind constantly and even if she says she forgives you, she never will.

Also, I never understood the rationalization of "But, it didn't mean anything." If someone said that to me I'd be double pissed off. If I meant so much to them that them want to confess and 'work it out,' they why the F would they risk it all on something that didn't matter anyway. If you're going to do it, atleast do it for more than lust and a one night stand.

I'm the total opposite, I would feel worse if my boyfriend/husband was cheating on me with someone he cared about enough to carry on with. If someone has a one night indiscretion, it's easier to pass off as a mistake than when they carry on something for a prolonged period of time. If my boyfriend went out one night, got hammered and got a bj from some chick he met at a bar I would be pissed, but not devestated. However, if my boyfriend was cheating on me with someone to the point where it was as if he had two relationships, that would devestate me and make me feel as if I wasn't enough.