Cheating!

[Maynard]

I was married to someone who could not be faithful to me. He never admitted to it, and I was grateful for that. In some twisted way, I felt that it meant he really cared about my feelings. If you admit to cheating, its just a way to unburden yourself of the guilt, and you end up making the other person carry around with the doubt. It is very possible to have a meaningless sexual relationship, and meaningful relationships are not contigent upon monogamy. Sometimes, respecting your partner's feelings is much more valuable than being faithful to her.

My soon-to-be ex-wife cheated on me as well, but she never told me. I found out for myself, and well, it's a whole big ugly fucking story. But the point is, I'm glad I know. If I didn't know, then it could still be going on right now.

A woman I know was in a relationship for like 10 years, then got engaged. While engaged, she had sex with someone else. She told him, then got married anyway. So there's someone that told that they cheated, and still made it work out. Their love was strong enough. :fuggin: