04-02-2002, 04:47 PM
The common theme in all the replies here is that it's a nice idea, but anyone with a significant other seems to have an air of doubt as to how they would react in seeing said significant other with someone else. The only real way to try this and get the most out of it would be to have it with two people that you have no real emotional ties to (like a fuck-buddy, something along those lines). I know it sounds harsh, but it's the only way to keep everyone's emotions from running wild. Of course if you're in a relationship that's strong enough to look past the emotions (i.e. secure in your feelings for each other) then it shouldn't be a problem really. Most people aren't like this however, so threesomes tend to be more problematic than good.
Speaking for myself, the wife has expressed an air of bi-curiousity, and I've encouraged it (surprise), but not to the point of forcing it - that's a real bad way to go. Of course I mentioned the threesome (since her curiousity was relegated to a one-on-one fantasy) and she said she would be extremely jealous of seeing me with someone else right there. On the flip side, I'd have no problem with it so long as I approved and was confortable with the other person.
If you get the cance to try it then please do, by all means - just be sure to think of each other's feelings before you actually "dive in".
Speaking for myself, the wife has expressed an air of bi-curiousity, and I've encouraged it (surprise), but not to the point of forcing it - that's a real bad way to go. Of course I mentioned the threesome (since her curiousity was relegated to a one-on-one fantasy) and she said she would be extremely jealous of seeing me with someone else right there. On the flip side, I'd have no problem with it so long as I approved and was confortable with the other person.
If you get the cance to try it then please do, by all means - just be sure to think of each other's feelings before you actually "dive in".