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HITTING BOTTOM ISN'T A WEEKEND RETREAT! IT'S NOT A SEMINAR! ONLY AFTER YOU'VE LOST EVERYTHING ARE YOU FREE TO DO ANYTHING! YOU SEE, YOU LISTEN, BUT YOU DON'T GET IT! YOU HAVE TO FORGET EVERYTHING YOU KNOW, EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU KNOW!
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If you have to ask yourself "If I do this, am I cheating?" then you probably are.
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Oh and another good rule of thumb is if you have to ask if its cheating, well your conscience is pretty much telling you it IS cheating.
Dont read the whole thread much do you?
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As far as cheating goes, I really have nothing to add, I am way to selfish at this time in my life to be worried about if I am doing something that makes me happy, is it going to affect how the other person feels.
I guess thats why I am single now too.Someone, anyone, love me,please?{}
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well i cheated once but i had 2 reasons. one being the relationship i was in was breaking up anyway and I just really didn't care but mostly it was the guy i cheated with. i don't think i would have done it with just any guy, there was just something about this one. i do have one question though, why do people flip out so badly when you tell them you've done it? it's not like you've done it to them personally but a lot of people seem to take it to heart. wat's the deal with that?
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Quote:well i cheated once but i had 2 reasons. one being the relationship i was in was breaking up anyway and I just really didn't care but mostly it was the guy i cheated with. i don't think i would have done it with just any guy, there was just something about this one. i do have one question though, why do people flip out so badly when you tell them you've done it? it's not like you've done it to them personally but a lot of people seem to take it to heart. wat's the deal with that?
People don't "cheat" if there isn't a reason too. Making excuses of why you did it is the reason you did it. Don't make excuses, enjoy what you did. You did it for a reason. :fucking:
oh, i enjoyed the cheating. that was beyond awesome. and i didn't feel badly about cheating on my then boyfriend, but the guy was in a relationship and i did feel like it was my fault he cheated
HITTING BOTTOM ISN'T A WEEKEND RETREAT! IT'S NOT A SEMINAR! ONLY AFTER YOU'VE LOST EVERYTHING ARE YOU FREE TO DO ANYTHING! YOU SEE, YOU LISTEN, BUT YOU DON'T GET IT! YOU HAVE TO FORGET EVERYTHING YOU KNOW, EVERYTHING YOU THINK YOU KNOW!
Quote:but the guy was in a relationship and i did feel like it was my fault he cheated
my ex-girlfriend and i got a bit of an early start before she dumped her last one, and i felt the exact oposite of what you mentioned.i did not feel the slightest bit bad that she was cheating, becuase it was all her doing, not mine.why should i feel guilt about what she does to her guy?
Well the person I cheated on I cared about but I was thinking with my dick and fucked it all up. Thats one occassion I truly felt bad about cheating on someone.
I think cheating is only something you can't tell your partner. But I've always been in relationships where they were open. If I am with someone and he wants to fuck someone else, go ahead, just tell me, as long as the emotion isn't there. hell, bring her home and we'll both enjoy her.