05-01-2002, 04:51 PM
Have you developed a board personality? When you post do people expect you to do certain things? I know that I certainly have. People think that when I post threads, that they are mindless drivel. WEll, you may think that, but there is truly a method to my madness. Believe it or not. Is everyone going to understand me? Nope. Oh well. But I can certainly try right?
Look at some people, their personalities shine through, and they are always referred to as the same thing. For example OAS, he always makes sex jokes, and people always joke about him being old. Grumpy, he's always pissed off, and posts like a bull in a china shop, and people make jokes about his mom. K1d, people always think he's trying to piss people off by what he posts. Etc, etc, etc. There's a list I could make for just about everyone. Maybe you like this personality, but I think that alot of people have been falsely expected to do certain things.
Here's what I propose. Let's try for a few days to be someone else. No, not post as a different member. But be YOU. Don't act like you normally do becasue people expect it. Don't act that way because you're on a message board. Let's see the real you for a few days. I'd like to see you all give this a try. I want to see a whole new message board of people here now.
I know theres alot of you that are real, but still, you have something about you that people go back to to poke fun, stuff thats not true, but was made up along the way. For some of you, this is going to be hard to do, but for others, it may be a refreshing start.
Lets see what happens...
Look at some people, their personalities shine through, and they are always referred to as the same thing. For example OAS, he always makes sex jokes, and people always joke about him being old. Grumpy, he's always pissed off, and posts like a bull in a china shop, and people make jokes about his mom. K1d, people always think he's trying to piss people off by what he posts. Etc, etc, etc. There's a list I could make for just about everyone. Maybe you like this personality, but I think that alot of people have been falsely expected to do certain things.
Here's what I propose. Let's try for a few days to be someone else. No, not post as a different member. But be YOU. Don't act like you normally do becasue people expect it. Don't act that way because you're on a message board. Let's see the real you for a few days. I'd like to see you all give this a try. I want to see a whole new message board of people here now.
I know theres alot of you that are real, but still, you have something about you that people go back to to poke fun, stuff thats not true, but was made up along the way. For some of you, this is going to be hard to do, but for others, it may be a refreshing start.
Lets see what happens...
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