Quote:But, I think there's a subtle difference here.
cop-out
Your word is your word, doesn't matter how grand the scale. You shouldn't preach this holier-than-thou shit to others if you can't hold it up yourself.
people do change, it's the adapting to the change that makes marriage work. The people I know that are married and it's working, lived together for many years before getting married. And, they dated for a few years before they moved in together.
I'm sorry that you all don't believe me, but I'd rather die having never been married than to be divorced. It's my opinion, and you will take it with a smile.
K1d, I once thought the way you do. I told myself that I was never going to get married, then I found someone I "thought" I was right. That I was going to spend the rest of my life with them. We both tried everything we could to fix the marriage, but sometimes theres just things that are done to each other that are unforgivable. Why should two people stay together if every time they look at each other they get sick to their stomach? Love is a bond that SHOULD last forever, but there are many other emotions that can go along with it. Untrust being one of them.
Again, you have no idea about my life, or what happened to dissolve my marriage. Until you know all the facts, you can't make a judgement.
And you will thake THAT with a smile.
<center> i want something good to die for, to make it beatiful to live</center>
Yeah Kid that make sense. stick with a marriage no matter what. Better to live your life completely miserable than break a "vow" which is no more than a grandfathered biblical promise to a make believe God.
And if you have children, I'm sure they'd much rather be brought up in a loveless marriage when you and wife have become so emotionally separate from each other that you rarely even communicate.
But at least you wouldn't have broken you're promise.<font color=white>
I wasn't joking. I honestly have no idea what you are talking about. I know what I did, but I only did it once. If mispelling things intentionally has become the thing around here lately, I guess I've missed it.