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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: FU to men | ||||
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| Just Jon | posted on 08-20-2001 @ 11:40 PM |    | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Aug. 00  | FMFB, I'm your adopted daddy, so there's always incest ;) And where is Balloon Not in this FU? -----  E-mail: [email protected] AIM: JonNeedsSN Adoptee: I have an empty basement yet again... You listen to me! While I will admit to a certain cynicism, the fact is I am a nay-sayer and a hatchet man in the fight against violence! I pride myself in taking a punch and I'll gladly take another because I choose to live my life in the company of Gandhi and King! My concerns are global. I reject absolutely revenge, aggression, and retaliation. The foundation of such a method...is love. I love you, Sheriff Truman. | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 12:19 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | quote: Since you were such a bad adoptive daddy, I bet you would forget to molest me too. ;)  why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? | ||||
| WookiePoolParty | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 3:44 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Mar. 01 | quote: Huh? What? What are these needs you speak of? :-) Glad to see the humor's still there FMFB. My advice is not to underestimate the power of the word Fuck. Say anything you want, but make sure it includes a solid use of fuck, and you'll get your point across. Help those that need it. Join IBC.  WPP's Swiller Beer Pick of the Week: Yuengling Black & Tan, now available in New York | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 10:02 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Grrr...update on the guy from work....he sent me 3 emails to my work email and 1 to my home email either trying to explain away his actions or blaming me for them. When I told him that I thought trying to talk to me about this while at work was inappropriate, he said when he is at work he is constantly reminded of his feelings. I'm getting a little creeped out by this because you would think after the I love you bombshell he would just stop. To make matters worse, he is writing about me being with guys who are not him and telling me how jealous he is and that he could offer me so much more that is much better. If these emails don't stop, I really don't know what I should do. FU stop emailing me...I never led you to believe that we would be together, and you're scaring me...FU why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? | ||||
| heyladiladi STONER ON THE SNUKA CBH ROTISSERIE | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 10:19 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: May. 01 | Yikes! I'd definitely look into the 'telling the supervisor' route! Stuff from before: quote:There are good men out there, they just need a little work. quote:You'd have a whole new set of problems. You'd never have eyes again. ;)  "I'd rather die while I'm living then live while I'm dead." - Jimmy Buffet | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 10:31 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | I really don't want to go to my boss if I can avoid it, we have a zero tolerance rule and he would be fired and then I would some how feel bad. I know there are good men out there....where? :) quote: I don't get it :( why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 10:31 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | quote: Great...so I'm gaey now? Look at me the pretty little faeg.;-) Jeez! I'd save every one of those emails. I'd say he's almost already on the grounds for dismissal. have any riends in HR that could help you out?  Proud Member of the S.T.O.N.E.R./Swillers Alliance. | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 10:48 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | I am friendly with my immediate supervisor, if I filed a complaint, it would be taken care of A.S.A.P. not because I am friendly with my supervisor, but mainly because my company is federally funded and we can't fuck around with shit like this. I really don't want to "tell on him" just because then I will feel guilt ridden. However, I have saved all the emails. why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? | ||||
| heyladiladi STONER ON THE SNUKA CBH ROTISSERIE | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 11:25 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: May. 01 | I meant: Men would be talking to your breasts instead of looking you in the eyes. j/k :) Maybe if you tell the guy that you are considering "asking you boss for advice" and that he could be fired if "anything were seen as inappropriate." And hope he takes the job threatening hint. If not, hey maybe he is too stupid to work around normal people & should go. And, not that you aren't completely special, but what if he is doing it to other people too. Work is hard enough, without all that added on. Oh, PS - GW, we know you're not gay. Just recouperating ;) "I'd rather die while I'm living then live while I'm dead." - Jimmy Buffet | ||||
| Ken'sPen [Sarcasm] Doesn't Live Up To The Hype [/Sarcasm] I should have stayed OVER THERE | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 11:41 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Aug. 01 | Miss Bags, You do have a problem...... Everything I have ever heard about the stalker mentality.....(read what the therapist told me when I was locked in a lovely white room)....is that the more considerate you are of him the more he thinks you like him....... I would flat out tell him that one more non work email will result in your taking the stack to the boss and having his ass escourted out of the building.......otherwise. | ||||
| Black Lazerus | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 11:49 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | quote:OH i thought that was a brokenjaw comment Feel better Doll if this guy keeps up we could have our first board Six Feet Under Challange I will bring the Duct Tape. who's Got another Shovel The Leader Of The Black Revolutionary Army This message was edited by Black Lazerus on 8-21-01 @ 11:53 AM | ||||
| New Fan | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 2:25 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 01 | I agree with ken's pen. Tell him flat out you are not interested. He will get the message. That is if he is not a total loser. Also, If you have to turn him in, be careful. My sister is the head of an hr dept., and she has had many encounters. One person came back after she fired him and he keyed her car. She has also gotten threats from some of those freaks. Men can be wierd assholes.But im sure you didnt need me to tell you that.  Forgotten but not gone(Im still here-God damn it) | ||||
| ClumsyChaos | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 2:37 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | ok...not that I am trying to start shit but I am confused. You say all good guys are taken or gay. Then some guy comes along and writes you some beautiful words and expressed his attraction to you. Then you turn around and call him a creep? Then you refer top the guys who wont stick around as someone that you want around and "nice guys"?? Sounds to me like you another fickle female. I am not starting a fight but I just do not understand females or the world of dating. That is why I found myself a cool hot little woman and got married.  Why dont you people get your own Sig pic...stop using my X symboll | ||||
| mrbungle | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 3:09 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Mar. 01 | quote: Ahem :)  It's not funny, my ass is on fire.... Thanks to the lovely Jolene for my sig pic... Official gentile member of the HLJC... | ||||
| McBourbon | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 3:17 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jul. 01 | Hey FMFB....here's my take on it: The guy is a stalker. If he's starting to write about jealousy over you with other guys...he's got issues. His therapist probably told him to just go after what he wanted and confront his fears of women, but he lacks social skills, hence the writing. It's one of the only ways he feels comfortable expressing himself while he's coming to terms with actually speaking to women on a personal level and not just spraying his shorts when he gets close to an attractive one. If you don't file with your supervisor...a quick stop to put something on record with the local police is not a bad idea. Take the e-mails with you.  | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 3:34 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Chaos... I know that you were not trying to start trouble, but I would like to defend myself since you did refer to me as a fickle female. The reason I am upset about the emails is not because he is a nice guy who I don't want to date, its because he has expressed interest in me in the past and I nicely said that I felt uncomfortable dating someone I work with due to a bad experience I had at my old job. His emaiing me isn't endearing it is scary, especially when they are unsolicited and also somewhat threatening...he told me I better be nice to him...it was just odd. Anyway, I don't know what to do....do you guys really think this could turn into a stalking type thing? He keeps on implying that he is crazy....I am getting a little creeped. why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? | ||||
| SweetAngel | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 5:10 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | Okay, here's my two cents. First, take the e-mails and go to your supervisor first thing tomorrow. Second, take steps to protect yourself. This guy sounds like a real nut case. Telling you that you "better be nice" to him sounds like a threat to me. Why do you care if he gets fired? It's not your fault. You have done nothing wrong. It's HIS actions that are getting him in trouble. If you delay reporting him, and something (god forbid) happens, you will be kicking yourself wishing you had done something sooner. Also, I agree that a report to the police could be in order. Anything that's documented could serve to help you in the long run. Be careful with this one. Okay...I think I've used up my two cents now. :)  Thanks to Brokenjaw for my pic (again)! | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-21-2001 @ 11:39 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Update again....just got an email telling me that hes messed things up again and that he will leave me alone.....I don't know if I should trust it...grrrr....who wants to be my big mean older brother and beat him up? why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? | ||||
| MashedPotatohead NIGGA PLEASE! All the bitches in here are crazy! | posted on 08-22-2001 @ 12:49 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: HUMMM...I think it would scare him if we knew some info about so we can scare him shitless via e-mail or better yet snail mail <- can be REAL FUN. Don't post any of his info here (that's a NO-NO). A package with a dead fish in it may do the trick, plus a cryptic note. LMK if I can be of assistance - you know where to find me :)  | ||||
| fuh-q-2 | posted on 08-22-2001 @ 11:50 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Nov. 00 | FMFB...Listen, I have had a few freinds that have had to deal with people like this. Do not believe anything that is said. If the emails are as bad as you say then you should at least ask someone in HR a hypothetical question and see what they say. I know that you think you will feel guilty but guilt is much better then the creep factor that you are feeling now. If you do take this to any higher ups, also put these emails on record with the police and they will advise you on any actions you should take as far as possible revenge tactics. I do not mean to scare you just trying to help a fellow board member with a problem. Like I said, I have gone through shit like this so if you want advice click on my sig pic and email me. Hope it all works out for you. Consider me your 300 lb older brother. And plenty of others on this board as well I am sure.  This message was edited by fuh-q-2 on 8-22-01 @ 11:57 AM | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 4:44 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Sadly I have to bring this back to the top. The same asshole who was emailing me, is now apparently out to get me fired at work. He has gone to my boss not supervisor twice in the past week and a half. Once in an attempt to make me look lazy (keep in mind, I barely post while working) and the second time he went to her claiming I was having a temper tantrum. Thankfully I had gone to my supervisor right away and told her about the emails and she in turn had to tell my boss for legal reasons, so they saw through what he was doing. This is just insane...I shouldn't have to look over my shoulder everytime I hop on the internet or grunt out of frustration. FU for making a job that I actually didn't mind going to an uncomfortable place to be. Thank god things with us never progressed, I can only imagine what you would be like if we had a history together. FUCK YOU! why do I say I'm fine when it's obvious I'm not? why's it so hard to tell you what I want? why can't you just read my mind? | ||||
| Nana's Precious | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 5:10 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | sorry to hear about your problem FMFB....sounds like you have a real pschyo on your hands....just make sure that you report everything to your boss or supervisor from here on out...and, good luck!!1 "what, I thought we were all just having fun..." guardian of f_tarded | ||||
| Sluggo667 SLASH's New Buddy, but shhh... I am not allowed to tell anyone. | posted on 08-31-2001 @ 5:13 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Apr. 01 | quote: Good Girl...This guy has obvious problems... Don't worry about the job... He'll be the one to get fired. (and don't feel guilty about it)  Sluggo667...Neighbor of the beast... UH...I forgot what I wanted to say... AIM-Slugggo667 | ||||
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