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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: FU to circumstances | ||||
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| Inappropriate Belle | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 11:07 AM |    | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Feb. 01  | First of all, FMFB I am sorry you are hurting and if you want to talk, find me on IM. However, Blue Tarp has a point. This happens all the time. Boy meets girl, boy and girl decide to see each other but not seriously or exclusively. Then, one of them (usually the girl but not always) changes their mind and wants to take the next step, then gets pissed when the other one doesn't want to. This is not fair. You can't get pissed at someone for not loving you. Sure it sucks, but most of the time you knew what you were getting into from the start and agreed to it. You can't be pissed at the other person because you want to change the contract and he/she doesn't. Supressing your feelings won't help either, trust me. In fact, that's probably what started the trouble in the first place. What you can be pissed about is if this person is being cold to you even though he/she knows you're in pain. THAT deserves a HUGE FUCK YOU!!! I'm sorry you're in pain sweetie. I hope it gets better.  | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 11:35 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Belle...thank you for offering to talk..its really sweet of ya. But now to clear the air...I put in one of my posts that this whole FU was not directed at one individual specifically, rather than a slew of men who have in the past or are at this present time making me nutty. As for the relationship line, I know you can't make someone want to be with you, but it does bother you when they start to be with you, and then act cold and distant and claim not to be ready for what they started. (Once again this does not apply to the person many might think I am talking about) The majority of my FU has been directed at someone who still doesn't even know that they are the one I am talking about, and the rest of it is really aimed at assholes from my past who just don't seem to go away. This whole thing has turned into like a little women's support group, which is kinda funny :) Well to keep with the spirit of things here are a few more: FU for thinking so little of me FU for thinking I could never survive without you FU for still loving me FU for this FU getting totally out of hand :)  All I've undergone I will keep on Underneath it all We feel so small The heavens fall But still we crawl All I've undergone I will keep on | ||||
| Fyfetallica | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 12:07 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 00 | **DISCLAIMER** im a very nice guy :)  When a Man Lies He Murders Some Part of the World These Are the Pale Deaths Which men Miscall Their Lives All this I Cannot Bear to Witness Any Longer Cannot the Kingdom of Salvation Take Me Home Proud adopter of the queen of Whipped Cream....Daisy_NJ | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 12:12 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | quote: Ahh that you may be....but you know what parts of this are for you ;) All I've undergone I will keep on Underneath it all We feel so small The heavens fall But still we crawl All I've undergone I will keep on | ||||
| Fyfetallica | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 12:18 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 00 | Hey hammer, You forgot F Me cus i am a tease :) When a Man Lies He Murders Some Part of the World These Are the Pale Deaths Which men Miscall Their Lives All this I Cannot Bear to Witness Any Longer Cannot the Kingdom of Salvation Take Me Home Proud adopter of the queen of Whipped Cream....Daisy_NJ This message was edited by Fyfetallica on 5-7-01 @ 12:22 PM | ||||
| Canthandlemybooty | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 1:44 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Mar. 01 | quote: Woops...sorry FMFB please forgive me!:)But its the truth:) Anyways back to the FU's... -FU for not even trying to make things better -FU to me for wanting to still be ur friend -FU for thinking u did nothing wrong -FU to me for even bothering saying FU cuz no matter how many tears i cry, it wont bring back the friendship you so easily threw away!! Whoa...even though im utterly depressed and near tears...:( i feel so much better :)  "Oops I did it again" :) Adopted by the famous Drunk Boy....i feel so special!!:) | ||||
| Brokenjaw Always will bow down to the power of the Faceman!!!! | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 5:13 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Nov. 00 | quote: Hey gonzo man you know i prety much agree with you on most things but this one I cant. I think what sweetangel is saying is more metaphorical then physical. You learn from your mistakes, what you fucked up the first time around you wont the second time. Thats what makes you stronger, well atleast that my opinion. And who am I anyway just a tool I guess. But to add to your list I like the one that is mostly directed to me... FUCK YOU or I will knock your other eye out. Now that just kills, will that make me stronger or just blind? And why do you think you can knock it out in the first place?ROFLMMFAO.  | ||||
| SweetAngel | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 5:29 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | Thanks Broken. That's pretty much exactly what I meant. We learn from our mistakes and the mistakes of others, or at least we hope we do. But all those FU's still really suck when they're happening to you. | ||||
| GonzoStyle | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 6:14 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | quote: who said what to who and why? who is this person/persons you speak of? yes fyfe is a nice guy and Brokenshoulder i hear what you are saying. I agree with the statement "learn from your/others mistakes" I just hate the saying what doesnt kill ya makes ya stronger. I know all too well about learning from mistakes and heartaches. It has made me who i am and being so not caring about certain things and being a fuckin asshole sometimes because i hate being hurt. I hurt enough already mentally and physically because of my life. I now am suffering physically because of my stresses from the past 2 months so i understand. anyway what the fuck are we talking about here again? is this the new chat thread?   I like the way you stay on attack No matter what, I keep coming back And how you try to hold me down But you end up driven to the ground ... And that you say you will pray for me You realize you are prey for me She-Mail Me Here | ||||
| Fyfetallica | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 6:31 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 00 | thank you GS, for vouching for my niceness, didnt want anyone to think the FU for hitting me was NOT to me, a few other ones might be though lol... i think what doesnt kill you mostly wears you down.. But what the hell do i know.. When a Man Lies He Murders Some Part of the World These Are the Pale Deaths Which men Miscall Their Lives All this I Cannot Bear to Witness Any Longer Cannot the Kingdom of Salvation Take Me Home Proud adopter of the queen of Whipped Cream....Daisy_NJ This message was edited by Fyfetallica on 5-7-01 @ 7:28 PM | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 7:13 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Wow...this thread is out of control....quote: I speak of a lot of different people...but one specific person does not seem to be getting the idea that maybe a few things in here may be directed at them. quote: Well I was giving out a bunch of FUs, but perhaps this could be the new chat thread as well ;) quote: I think everyone knows that the FU for hitting me wasn't to you...trust me if you hit me a) you would not be able to type because I would chop your hands off, and b) a lot more people would know about it All I've undergone I will keep on Underneath it all We feel so small The heavens fall But still we crawl All I've undergone I will keep on | ||||
| Fyfetallica | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 7:29 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 00 | i totally did a typo, i fixed it though When a Man Lies He Murders Some Part of the World These Are the Pale Deaths Which men Miscall Their Lives All this I Cannot Bear to Witness Any Longer Cannot the Kingdom of Salvation Take Me Home Proud adopter of the queen of Whipped Cream....Daisy_NJ | ||||
| GonzoStyle | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 7:41 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | wow that liked narrowed it down FMFB, thanks. I know one of those FU's was for me though, Sorry about hitting you though you asked me to hurt you. I like the way you stay on attack No matter what, I keep coming back And how you try to hold me down But you end up driven to the ground ... And that you say you will pray for me You realize you are prey for me She-Mail Me Here | ||||
| Fyfetallica | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 7:49 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Aug. 00 | So thats where the bruises on her ass came from When a Man Lies He Murders Some Part of the World These Are the Pale Deaths Which men Miscall Their Lives All this I Cannot Bear to Witness Any Longer Cannot the Kingdom of Salvation Take Me Home Proud adopter of the queen of Whipped Cream....Daisy_NJ | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 05-07-2001 @ 8:28 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | quote: Ahhh...the whole point of this FU is to have the ability to be a bit vague and hope that some of the people you are talking about who do read this board will know that you are talking about them...and also the FU for hitting me wasn't to you, I don't consider consentual spankings to be hitting ;) All I've undergone I will keep on Underneath it all We feel so small The heavens fall But still we crawl All I've undergone I will keep on | ||||
| njstrawberry | posted on 05-08-2001 @ 2:03 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Feb. 01 | Bluetarp, who says I was speaking of a guy? Look at the sig again, my friend. I got a new one recently... "I could never treat you as good as you deserve to be treated." FUCK YOU...BY TELLING ME THAT YOU JUST TREATED ME LIKE SHIT AGAIN. FUCK ME FOR WANTING YOU AND FUCK YOU FOR NOT REALIZING HOW COULD WE COULD BE TOGETHER. ahhh starting to feel better...trust me guys when I say this...women can be bitches... WORD FROM THE WISE BI: "PEACH is good...PEACH is your friend...When you see PEACH...Do as I do...Don't just stare at it...EAT IT!"  XoXoXoXo - Place the kisses where you wish I was bi when being bi wasn't kewl. | ||||
| JoyUTC | posted on 05-08-2001 @ 4:43 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 01 | I have to jump in here. FMFB, I have to come to your aid and offer support. We always have the best talks (not like it would be different now *smile*). I'm here for you... I have a few to add myslef and in the same vein as previous disclaimers, the individual(s) involved will know who they are. Maybe. FU to you for making me feel that your friendship was real FU to you for thinking I would never find out FU to me for trusting what you said to be the truth FU to you for keeping your distance and lying about the friendship you promised FU to you while you laughed at me and not with me FU to you for the silence from you that I didn't (and don't) deserve FU to you and your odasity to tell me that you didn't mean to hurt me when you know you did FU to me for still wanting to talk to you I'm cleansed and you know? I think I'm ready for some more of those Jolly Ranchers right about now...  "This is, This is Legal isn't it?" This message was edited by JoyUTC on 5-8-01 @ 4:48 PM | ||||
| bluetarp | posted on 05-08-2001 @ 9:09 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Touche NJStrawberry. However, the majority of my question has yet to even be addressed. Why is it women say we men do not communicate, while not believing what we say? While the women fail to communicate things, and get mad when we don't hear what is meant? I am not asking this to start a fight. I would honestly like an answer. It strikes me that the only good way to get some of what we as guys want, is to lie like hell, because that is the only behavior women reward. I personally do not subscribe to this proccess anymore, and pay the consequences. So, who is willing to step up to the plate on this? Some people think I'm a psycho, everybody else knows it! This message was edited by bluetarp on 5-8-01 @ 9:18 PM | ||||
| njstrawberry | posted on 05-09-2001 @ 1:54 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Feb. 01 | Okay after today I have a few more. I can't believe I am typing this at 2 in the morning, but then again I can't believe HER. FUCK ME for believing in your promises. FUCK YOU for making them unfullfilled. FUCK ME for not having a good time tonight. FUCK YOU for making me think of you all night. FUCK ME for wanting forever. FUCK YOU for ever uttering the word. FUCK ME for falling head over heels over you. FUCK YOU for making me. FUCK ME for wanting your touch. FUCK YOU for touching me the way you did. FUCK ME for ever caring about you. FUCK YOU for pretending you ever cared for me. FUCK ME for calling you. FUCK YOU for telling me you had "someone else" there. FUCK ME for meeting you where you asked. FUCK YOU for introducing me to the one who replaced me. FUCK ME for ever crying a tear over you. FUCK YOU for telling me I'd get used to it. FUCK ME for pretending to be fine infront of everyone. FUCK YOU for being happy with your new girlfriend. FUCK ME for typing this at 2 in the morning. FUCK YOU for ever being in my life. and finally.... FUCK ME for giving you my heart. FUCK YOU for breaking it. To put it in Brother Joe's words : "CUNT, the word was made for you." WORD FROM THE WISE BI: "PEACH is good...PEACH is your friend...When you see PEACH...Do as I do...Don't just stare at it...EAT IT!" XoXoXoXo - Place the kisses where you wish I was bi when being bi wasn't kewl. This message was edited by njstrawberry on 5-9-01 @ 2:10 AM | ||||
| bluetarp | posted on 05-09-2001 @ 8:40 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Well NJStrawberry, I really need to make a couple of observations. I understand that I know nothing about you or your life, as it is between me and everybody on the board. However, your FU makes it clear you have some confusion. It is your fault for allowing your night to be ruined, by not doing something to think of something else. You sound obsessive. Most relationships don't work out. In each one, somebody wants the other more than the other is willing to. The fact that you were head over heels, means you weren't rational, and probably missed most of the communication that things weren't working for her. Perhaps the strength of your emotion drove her away. You control your own spiralling emotions. Just because someone is in tune to the way you like to be touched, doesn't mean they do it to hurt you. Technique is learned, not magically given to those meant to be together. Just because somebody cares about you, doesn't mean they want to stay with you. Maybe they just see something you don't. Being introduced to your replacement, may have been a way in her eyes, of getting this obsessive ex off her back. Not a bad thing you cried, it is good for your dealing with the breakup. She was right, you will get over it. Not wearing your heart on your sleeve, means you aren't dragging your other friends down all the time, so they can be supportive when you do lose it. You just weren't what she needed, and the 2am thing... I am sorry to read this much pain, but a little honest thought would probably clear up a lot of the issues expressed, along with a little time. Good luck to you. Some people think I'm a psycho, everybody else knows it! | ||||
| njstrawberry | posted on 05-09-2001 @ 10:35 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Feb. 01 | Hey Bluetarp, I don't need to explain my fuck you posts to you. I don't know who the fuck you are and I don't fucking care to know. If I need a shoulder to cry on I will go to my husband. I don't need you, some anal dripping douche bag, to ask me why I feel the way I do. You don't know the situation and nor do you need to know. Stop trying to make conversation with me by asking me questions on every fucking post I put up. You stupid fucking asshole. If you don't want this to end up in fight club, I suggest you shut the fuck up. ASSHOLE. WORD FROM THE WISE BI: "PEACH is good...PEACH is your friend...When you see PEACH...Do as I do...Don't just stare at it...EAT IT!" XoXoXoXo - Place the kisses where you wish I was bi when being bi wasn't kewl. | ||||
| bluetarp | posted on 05-09-2001 @ 1:31 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Must be close to the truth to draw that out. Whatever. Some people think I'm a psycho, everybody else knows it! | ||||
| Grumpy SAGILLID The Midget Message Board Mauler rides his trusty mount Wilbur once again!! Internet Idiots beware!! | posted on 05-09-2001 @ 1:31 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Dec. 00 | quote: FMFB - have you been hanging out with KeeKee again? :)  5 Million sperm and YOU had to be the one to get through? The latest member of the Grumpy Household: shyjer. Any and all complaints should be directed to me. | ||||
| GonzoStyle | posted on 05-09-2001 @ 1:35 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | hey Tarp if you don't want a MY to go along with the TOSS be quiet my man, straw is one of the coolest people i ever met and don't be a dick to her man. I like the way you stay on attack No matter what, I keep coming back And how you try to hold me down But you end up driven to the ground ... And that you say you will pray for me You realize you are prey for me She-Mail Me Here | ||||
| wage | posted on 05-09-2001 @ 1:56 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | FU for hitting me? sorry to hear about that, that's just WRONG!! adopted by Grkqt, i answer only to her! | ||||
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