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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: Fucking cry babies | ||||
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| bluetarp | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 11:00 AM |    | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01  | Am I the only person completely sick of the whole, he/she hurt me, oh it's not fair, f me for loving you, booo hooo shit? For the most part, if your heart gets broken, it's because you believe in some overly romantic notion about love. You can't just live your life, trusting your heart, because for the most part, it is all horomone induced. If you refuse to take responsibility for actually analyzing your situation, you are a fool. You will be hurt constantly, because you place too much faith in others. If you aren't capable of some level of critical thinking skills, you will get whats coming to you. A favorite saying of mine is: The stupid shall be punished. If you can't open your mind as wide as your heart, you may as well cut your own heart out, cause that is your problem. I have found that for the most part, the same people who are dramma queens about relationships, are also incapable of reasoned thinking. The unexamined life is not worth living, so said Socrates. A very good lesson can be taken from the song Margaritaville. It progresses, to where the singer admits fault for the failed relationship. No one could reasonably believe, that all their failed relationships are someone elses fault. Why is this so hard to understand? Some people think I'm a psycho, everybody else knows it! | ||||
| pinknips | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 11:10 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Sep. 00 | So well said blue... a relationship is based on two people and both of their actions. Keep your eyes, mind and heart open always but don't be blind. Everyone is capable of hurting, being cruel and heartless. Don't be so naive about all the lovey dovey shit cause it will usually disappoint. There are no prince charmings and no women who want to be of your service at all times. This is reality. Being friends first is something I believe to be key in having a successful relationship. This way you know them on what I believe is a more "real" level. Cause are you not supposed to be best friends with the one you love anyway? I guess after so many relationships gone bad and some REAL bad I finally understand that complaining about it or feeling sorry for myself didn't do shit. Suck it up cause they didn't break your heart... you let them by not opening your eyes. The signs are always there. | ||||
I have Cool-Mod-Powers and can read the Cool-Mod-Forum, then I drive home in my Cool-Mod-Car UFC | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 11:25 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | So what you're saying is people who have and acknowledge their emotions can't think logicly? That if you take an opportunity to vent your frustrations in a forum supplied for that purpose you're stupid? I have to disagree... being a drama queen has nothing to do with intelligence, and venting your pain doesn't make you a drama queen either. I think being able to acknowledge your emotions IS a sign of greater intelligence, not the opposite, and admitting to pain is an important step in the process of LEARNING from it.  NO! I am NOT a Goth Dude!! "It's hard to garble nawdle zous, With all these marbles in my mouth" E-Mail Me | ||||
| spitfire421 | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 11:25 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Have you ever been in a long-term relationship? or in love? You just seem bitter about the whole thing. It's been awhile since I've been in a "new" relationship, and its always tough to judge whether its going to work or not...Don't you remember what it's like to feel butterflies in your stomach the first time? Why do you thin k that love has to be rational? All emotions are irrational: love, hate, depression, etc. Love can be a great blessing or a huge curse. I'm lucky enough to have seen it through the good and bad (trust me, I've been hurt BIG TIME and a couple times it was my fault, but others it definitely wasn't me). Furthermore, some people just attract the wrong person for them, they don't realize it at first and by the time they do, they have already fallen and its too late. I still have a very romantic heart and mind..so sue me.  no-one ever tends to me. Sitting alone covered in breeze. Some things are so my mind can breathe. The waiting is hard, fuckin' takes so long. Draped in sun, hands in sand. Earth acid cleanses me. It cleanses me clean, but the world it never comes(Kyuss, Space Cadet) | ||||
USA Autoban Head Slap... Swim Move... | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 11:32 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Oct. 00 | Hmmm, I'm formulating a response, but I'm not sure if I want to approach it from Bluetarp's Socrates angle or his Jimmy Buffet angle... Decisions, decisions.  Chef Corpse Boyardee is bringing the food, don't worry! < | ||||
...And now the battle between us and them has begun. JYD-4-LIFE. | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 11:34 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: May. 00 | bluetarp, ive been very injured by your statements and im going to cry about it. know what i hate, people whining about other people's whining. we are all unique creatures on this earth and we react to things differently. some people get over them and others linger on them and who the fuck are you to say your way is better than others? if you dont like the way others are acting or reacting to things, in this case, move on. thanx This time I'm 'a stand up and shout I'm 'a do things my way It's my way My way, or the highway | ||||
| Kid Afrika | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 11:51 AM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | Bluetarp, just because NJStrawberry handed your ass to you in that other thread isn't a valid reason to post this gripe. I, for one, don't care about your opinion. We all know that we lie about shit when starting a relationship. We lie about our feelings, we lie about our intentions. Male and female both are guilty of this. Although I do agree that bitching and moaning accomplishes nothing, except maybe for the venting of built up emotions, I don't see any harm in posting a thread in the FU Forum about it. So, FU BlueTarp for being an intolerant piece of shit. Pink, I'm just gonna pretend I didn't see you agree with bluetarp, ok?
This message was edited by Kid Afrika on 5-10-01 @ 11:56 AM | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 11:54 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | quote: Ever vented your problems to someone else? That's what folks do here. I wouldn't call it "crying". More like using the board as an outlet for your frustrations. Some people need to get shit off their chest and this is how they do it. Don't bust people balls,esp. when they're down.  Half assing it. | ||||
| Rog2K | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 12:01 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Although extremely jaded in his approach, I somewhat agree with Bluetarp. Like I said to Baby Nicole. You have to realize that anyone that would break up with you obviously doesn't appreciate you, so they don't deserve to be with you.... If you try to fail, and succeed, which have you done? -George Carlin | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 12:08 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Rog...but why should anyone have a problem with someone posting about their situation? That's the problem I have with Blue and Pink. The board is made for things like this. Half assing it. | ||||
| pinknips | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 12:34 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Sep. 00 | Well thanks Kid I appreciate that... You mean to tell me guys lie?? I must have missed the memo. I do think this is a place to vent your "problems" and what not but it seems to be more often than not that it's about love gone bad. Ever stop to think that all the relationships hurting around here may have something to do with the fact we all spend a whole lot of time here? Just a thought. Lots of people loosing their jobs and boyfriend/girlfriend seems to be a common thing around here. Maybe because we are focusing our time/effort elsewhere. Just a though. | ||||
| Raven | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 12:46 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | quote: doesn't this post make you apart of that group now ??? Guys shhhhhhh. this is the FU board -- all FU are welcome --- as i have said before -- if you don't like the post ot poster MOVE ALONG !!!! ok i have said my part --now Blue stop your bitch'n too MY adopted Newbie is :no one -- now looking to form a "Flock" | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 12:46 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | PN....I'm never on this site after work hours...My girl effed me over 2 months ago. I highly doubt that my time here would have an effect on out relationship. As far as focusing time elsewhere, sure you are right, but it didn't have anything to do with this site. That's just wrong. Half assing it. | ||||
USA Autoban Head Slap... Swim Move... | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 12:50 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Oct. 00 | Hmmm, relationships and the Board... Interesting question Pinknips. Chef Corpse Boyardee is bringing the food, don't worry! < | ||||
| Raven | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 12:56 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | BM -- play nice with my little friend :P MY adopted Newbie is :no one -- now looking to form a "Flock" | ||||
| spitfire421 | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 1:06 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | quote: I don't think so Pink, I just think that when you have this many people in one place, that shit is bound to happen...granted there are some people who have problems because of the board... I think it's a healthy thing to talk about your problems here if you have no one else to turn to that understands, at least your not keeping them bottled up inside...Everyone's always looking for a sympathetic ear :) no-one ever tends to me. Sitting alone covered in breeze. Some things are so my mind can breathe. The waiting is hard, fuckin' takes so long. Draped in sun, hands in sand. Earth acid cleanses me. It cleanses me clean, but the world it never comes(Kyuss, Space Cadet) | ||||
| pinknips | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 1:18 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Sep. 00 | Thanks Rob my sweety... but BM can be however he'd like to me. I am a big girl and I can and have taken it. I know how people can be here and have a pretty good idea of why they are that way. I don't let it affect me it's amusing. Spit not just the board... that's one thing but a relationship takes a whole lot of time and effort to make it work and if those things aren't there it aint gonna work. But, by seeing the number of posts and registration dates, time of posts... things like that it shows that some people can't be doing much else. | ||||
USA Autoban Head Slap... Swim Move... | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 1:28 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Oct. 00 | Hey, whoa, wait! I wasn't pointing fingers at anyone. I REALLY meant that it was an interesting question. I've got nothing but love for you Pinknips. Chef Corpse Boyardee is bringing the food, don't worry! < | ||||
| wage | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 1:50 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | bluetarp, who said you have to read those posts? rip me for being new but when i see a post that doesn't interest me I DON'T READ IT!! pretty simple actually! adopted by Grkqt, i answer only to her! | ||||
| njstrawberry | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 1:51 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Feb. 01 | Thanks KID! That is so true, so true, so fucking true. This guy was bitching about FMFB's thread in the FU forum the other day and now he creates a new thread to say FU to threads like that. So how about this one Bluetarp, did you ever think that for someone who knows so much about relationships, as you seem to want to portray you do, that you should then, at least, be in a content relationship at this time? Oh damn, I wasn't suppose to say anything. Was I? LMAO WORD FROM THE WISE BI: "PEACH is good...PEACH is your friend...When you see PEACH...Do as I do...Don't just stare at it...EAT IT!"  XoXoXoXo - Place the kisses where you wish I was bi when being bi wasn't kewl. | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 2:23 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | quote: Now post counts are used to evaluate relationship skills?? I'm not trying to single you out PN, but that's weak. Hey but everyone is entitled to his or her opinion. That's why we are here isn't it? Half assing it. | ||||
| pinknips | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 2:30 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Sep. 00 | GW... merely stating that if you look and it doesn't even have to be that carefully it's quite obvious that there are some people that truly can not being doing anything much more than spending there time here. That's fact not opinion. What is an opinion is that it may be having an effect on their relationships. And thanks BM :) glad to hear it. | ||||
| Rog2K | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 2:50 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | quote: I agree. I was just saying that I thought his basic principle was true. Not that he should bitch when people post about stuff. I must say, though, that airing personal shit out on the board when both parties are members tends to lead to trouble, right Brokenjaw? If you try to fail, and succeed, which have you done? -George Carlin | ||||
| FeelMyFunBags | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 3:14 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Tarp...since it was my FU post that I think led you to yours...I will take a moment to respond: If you consider someone voicing their emotions being a cry baby, then you are truly more of an insensitive prick than I thought. The FU board is the place to vent your frustrations without having to go out, get loaded, or hurt someone etc. Then you go around and second guess people's relationship skills, without even knowing their current situations. Personally I was venting frustrations on many people from my past who have played an influential role in the way I view relationships today. Until you have lived the hell I have lived, don't go calling me or anyone else who feels the need to get a few things off their chests. As far as the issue of the board affecting people's relationships...I have to say, if any one person in a relationship is spending a substantial amount of time on a computer or message board, it is most likely as an escape from an already failing relationship. I doubt that joining a message board etc. could cause a break up.  All I've undergone I will keep on Underneath it all We feel so small The heavens fall But still we crawl All I've undergone I will keep on | ||||
| pinknips | posted on 05-10-2001 @ 3:30 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Sep. 00 | FMFB, joining a message board can hardly cause a relationship to break up/end. I don't think anyone said that at all. However when one is spending 90% of their time in front of a computer screen then obviously they are not putting forth the time and effort into much else. | ||||
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