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| Posted By | Discussion Topic: FU to men! | ||||
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| Brittney | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 8:05 AM |    | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01  | Im sure there's probably a million of these threads already, but you know what? I don't care! No, I didn't feel like going and searching for one that is 17 months old... ANYWAY, I got into a STUPID fight with my boyfriend last night. It started off as my fault...I'll admit that. But when I tried to go and apologize, the mother fucker just walked out of my car. I begged him to come back and talk to me, and he ignored me. SO,I called him "WHAT?!?!" is how he answered his phone. I asked him again to come outside so we could work things out, and he said "No. I'm going to bed now." and fucking hung up on me. Being hung up on is one of my pet peeves. So, I tried to call him again, and he hung up on me, without even saying hello. THen, he took the phone off the hook! MOTHER FUCKER! I hate that shit. If you're mad about something fucking say it. Work it out. Don't send me home in fucking tears! Have a little fucking courtesy. We're fucking adults. I shouldn't have to go through this shit. We made each other a promise a while ago that if this ever happened, we would talk about it. FUCK YOU for going back on your promise and for making me cry myself to sleep last night! I've been adopted by spitfire!!! | ||||
| wage | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 8:19 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | :( i hate it when girls cry! sorry to hear that brittney, talking it out would have been the adult thing to do. you apologized for being at fault while he went to sleep? obviosly you are on 2 different levels. i hope it works out for you, good luck! need to talk, let any of us know! Proud to be C-blocked since day 1! Thanks to Jo for this sig pic and miss anonymous for the use of the ass! This message was edited by wage on 6-26-01 @ 8:21 AM | ||||
| TeenWeek what's a status? | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 8:35 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Britt, it should be an FU to your boyfriend, not to men. Don't blame men as a whole just because your boyfriend is stubborn. Some people do not like to talk to the other after a fight, while others do. I like to clear things up, while my wife likes to not talk about it, when we get in fights. Just depends on the person. It was your fault too, like you said. I am sure he is fine today and just needed the night to cool off.  | ||||
| Brittney | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 8:44 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01 | See, I tried to believe that, TeenWeek. I'm not usually one to blame the whole for one's stupid mistake. And I shouldn't have. you're right. But, there's something not right with ALL men. You people just don't think normally. My boyfriend is unlike anyone else. I knew that going in. But I'm tired of getting into relationships because the guy says "You've been treated like shit all this time, let me treat you the way you should be treated." And then, I get this! Is THIS what I deserve, because if so, you can fucking have it! I'd rather be miserable and alone, than miserable with someone else. I've been adopted by spitfire!!! | ||||
| wage | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 8:51 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | hey brit, it is true that someone will treat you right and you will find him! men and women think very differently but you can find someone that is on the same level. don't give up on us just because the guy you are with now can't talk. Proud to be C-blocked since day 1! Thanks to Jo for this sig pic and miss anonymous for the use of the ass! This message was edited by wage on 6-26-01 @ 8:55 AM | ||||
| Kim | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 8:55 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | Brittney, Sometimes it is best to walk away and cool down...Things are often said in the heat of an argument that can hurt feelings and really aren't necessary. I think it is ok to walk away and go to sleep...it allows you to cool off and calm down...how productive would it have been to have an all out argument at that point?? I have a boyfriend who is a hot head and I know from experience that it is best to let them cool down...Gotta love that Irish blood ;)  "Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly." This message was edited by Kim on 6-26-01 @ 9:00 AM | ||||
| wage | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 9:00 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | quote: kim, she cried herself to sleep, that is unacceptable. he could have at least said he wanted to think about it and they would talk today. he didn't feel like talking so it is okay to leave her that upset? no. Proud to be C-blocked since day 1! Thanks to Jo for this sig pic and miss anonymous for the use of the ass! | ||||
| Brittney | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 9:44 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01 | Wage, that is so sweet...I think that NOT talking is the most immature thing a person could do. Be a man, if I pissed you off, tell me, PLEASE. If I'm wrong, I'll admit it. But just because I got angry at something stupid is no reason to go off and ignore me! I've been adopted by spitfire!!! | ||||
| TeenWeek what's a status? | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 9:48 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Like I said women do it too. It is just the way some people are. They close themselves up after a fight and things are fine the next day. That is the way they deal with it best, while others want to talk about it. Just depends on the person. | ||||
| Brittney | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 9:52 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01 | Yeah, but he's not answering his phone today, either. I've been adopted by spitfire!!! | ||||
| TeenWeek what's a status? | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 9:56 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | than I agree with you, he is being a dick. | ||||
| wage | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:06 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | time to move on Brit? unless you think this is how you deserve to be treated. like i said before, we are all here for you if you need to vent more. Proud to be C-blocked since day 1! Thanks to Jo for this sig pic and miss anonymous for the use of the ass! This message was edited by wage on 6-26-01 @ 10:18 AM | ||||
USA Autoban Head Slap... Swim Move... | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:08 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Oct. 00 | It depends to a certain extent on what you did wrong. Was it a "break-up" mistake? I agree, in general, that talking things out is the best way, but there are certain "offenses" that can lead to immediate break-ups. I hope you aren't letting your guilt cloud your view of men. But, hey, men are assholes anyway. Thank god my boyfriend is gay!  | ||||
| King f-tard | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:10 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Feb. 01 | This is no excuse at all, but men can be very pig headed at times, and sometimes dont want to hear anything, especially if they think they are right. I know I can be, thats for sure. | ||||
| Brittney | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:20 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01 | Here's what happened: he and a friend of ours were talking about someting and someone. I wanted to know who. That's just how I am...I can't be left out of things. So, I bugged him, and finally, he said "my boss." THEN, he went on saying there are just some things that everyone shouldn't know. So I looked at him and said, "So, you lied to me?" And he said yes. (we were at the gas station while all this happened). SO, I peeled out of the gas station. Flew down to his house, and parked out front. He looked at me, gave me a thumbs-up (that's his thing), and went to get out of the car, without kissing me or anything, so I laughed in disgust, and I went to grab his hand, and he just got out and kept walking. I begged him to come back, called him on the phone, and NOTHING! So, yeah, I bugged him in the first place, but that's no way to treat your girlfriend at the end of the night. I've been adopted by spitfire!!! | ||||
| wage | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:31 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | hmmmmmm, regardless of how the situation was handled (poorly on both parts in my opinion, sorry) sounds like you need to rethink where you stand with this guy and even if you want to stand with him! ;) how old or you if you don't mind me asking? Proud to be C-blocked since day 1! Thanks to Jo for this sig pic and miss anonymous for the use of the ass! | ||||
USA Autoban Head Slap... Swim Move... | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:36 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Oct. 00 | Check out Wage working his pimp hand. lol | ||||
| wage | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:38 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | quote: LOL, not pimp hand, just curious as to her age. just get the feeling she is younger. Proud to be C-blocked since day 1! Thanks to Jo for this sig pic and miss anonymous for the use of the ass! | ||||
| Brittney | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:39 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01 | Yeah, Wage, are you hitting on me? No, I'm only kidding...I'm 21...I KNOW what I did was wrong...that's not the issue. The issue here is that he is a little boy and he sucks. I've been adopted by spitfire!!! | ||||
| Kid Afrika | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:41 AM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | quote: DING DING DING DING!!! Boys I think we've found the answer. Brittney, speaking only for myself, I know that when I get frustrated with someone's actions I just choose to cut them off completely. Call it selfish or whatever, but I don't see the point in arguing after a certain point. Sometimes it's better to let things rest, and discuss them another time. Again, I can only speak for myself here. But, I would rather walk away from a situation like that than to bring out angry thoughts in haste.
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| FoundryMusicJoker | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:46 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | Girls crying is not cool. But, if a guy doesn't want to talk means ethier he is a pussy or he doesn't give a shit anymore. Maybe, he wants a break-up. I dunno. I'm not Dr.Ruth. So, lets just send an F U to him and not guys. We always get an F U from girls when they are on the rag. ;)  check me out on the studio board at http://www.foundrymusic.com | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:47 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Brit...I just went through a situation with my ex girlfriend. So maybe I'm looking at it form his side but why did you have to know what he was talking about? Somethings are better left unsaid. I feel for yah. But maybe his conversation didn't in anyway involve you. Doesn't everyone deserve a little privacy? Hope I didn't come off as an insensitive prick, but it's not always the guy. Thus then and FU to your boyfriend would have been more appropriate....no?  | ||||
| wage | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:50 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: May. 01 | quote: hmm, where to begin? LOL, hitting on you? me? never!! ;) just thought you were younger cause you haven't learned to PICK your battles yet! was this even worthy of a fight, NO! you admit fault so that is good. "he is a little boy and he sucks" sounds like you know your answer. what are you waiting for??? for him to do it to you again?? Proud to be C-blocked since day 1! Thanks to Jo for this sig pic and miss anonymous for the use of the ass! This message was edited by wage on 6-26-01 @ 11:01 AM | ||||
| Mayor of Sloatsburg | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:54 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Oct. 00 | Brittney, with all due respect, just because this guy is a bag of douche doesn't mean that the rest of us fall into the same category. F-him with his "thumbs-up", I hope things work out for you. "Have you talked to your doctor about Stacker 2?" | ||||
| Brittney | posted on 06-26-2001 @ 10:59 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01 | I know that he deserves his privacy. It's just that's just how I am...you talk about something in front of me, and I need to know. But my pestering is no reason to lie to me...over something this stupid. As for breaking up, I'm not real big on that idea. I put a lot of time and effort into this relationship, and I'm not ready to throw it away for this...it's not worth it. I've been adopted by spitfire!!! | ||||
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