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| BawxedWine | posted on 07-01-2001 @ 3:13 PM |    | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01  | Am I your ex or am I not your ex? We hook up but then in the middle decide its going to complicate things. You want to "experience other things" but you still love me. You want to meet other people but you still wear the necklace and rings I bought you. We're not going out but we still hang out. You can hurt me and say whatever you want, but when I finally say WHY it hurt me you get angry. You hurt me but I still care about you. You want me in your life. I want you in my life. But you're scared that you need to experience life before I become your life. Its not my fault that you waited so long to have a real relationship. You say I'm everything you want but it scares you. You still call me just to talk. I love you, but I hate where we are right now. F-U to relationships in general. Every single one is F-ed up.  I showed my stuff and I graduated. All mentoring courtesy of canweseeyourstuff. This message was edited by BawxedWine on 7-1-01 @ 3:48 PM | ||||
| ClusterF@#$ | posted on 07-01-2001 @ 4:17 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | I say f indeciveness. I know it would hurt, but it sounds like you need to move on and try again. If she's not sure she wants to be with you, then it's her problem... relationships can't be one sided, and it's not fair for her to dick you around. I've been there, done that, and not only got the t-shirt, but the heartache to prove it. No matter what happens, one way or the other, things will be alright.
I'm a mushroom cloud layin' motha f-cka, motha f-cka. | ||||
| mikeWOW | posted on 07-01-2001 @ 8:42 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | yeah dont take that. they are playing w/ ur head "i hate people that dont get it!" | ||||
| IslesBaby00 I'm so blonde, I think Taco Bell is the Mexican phone company | posted on 07-01-2001 @ 9:39 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jun. 01 | sorry to hear that. i know how it feels like when someone plays/w your head | ||||
| hornygoatweed23 I've Got A Vagina With Teeth. G.O.O.F.B.A.H.G.S. Dragoon Battalion My friends call me Weed | posted on 07-01-2001 @ 10:56 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jan. 01 | There are two ways to deal with headgames. Either play along, or don't bother at all. Personally, I prefer not to play games. I've been in the same boat as you BW, and from my experience, nothing good comes from indecisiveness, especially on the part of the woman (no offense to the female board members, as I stated, it has been my experience). Hopefully things will clear up for you and your ex, best of luck. Classes for Enhancing your Board Experience and Stamina are now in Session! Email me here or AIM me at Organic999 to enroll. This message was edited by hornygoatweed23 on 7-1-01 @ 10:59 PM | ||||
| Brittney | posted on 07-02-2001 @ 8:21 AM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jun. 01 | Oh, boy, have I been there...and on both sides. Here's what's going on: You both got so used to having the other person there, so that's waht feels narural and "right" to you....that's why you keep going back (not to mention that you love each other...keep in mind, love doesn't go away just because you break up.) YOu're used to having someone there, whenever you want...to hold you or talk to you, so because she's stll there to do that for you, you're holding on to it, trying to hold on to something that may or may not still be there. What it all comes down to is that you may just be avoiding the inevitable. You don't really want to break up, because being lonely is a scary thing...but, deep down, you know it might be best.  | ||||
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