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Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - GreasyItalianPrincess - 06-23-2003
Quote:My point about youth is that I think 23 is too young to settle down with one person. I think that you're still growing/changing, and you're better off waiting to get involved in a serious relationship.
That's rather subjective. Who's to say when they are ready to settle? Or not?
Quote:As for out of sight, out of mind, just because you get emails, phone calls etc., doesn't mean you're thinking about the person at any other time.
Also subjective. Depends. I don't disagree.
Point is, if they think it deserves a chance, that's the route to go.
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - 60FeetUnderWater - 06-23-2003
Quote:Point is, if they think it deserves a chance, that's the route to go.
Yes, it never hurts to try.
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - MYLF - 06-23-2003
Quote:That's rather subjective. Who's to say when they are ready to settle? Or not?
Of course it's subjective. I'm speaking from my experience. Looking back and seeing where I was at 23 vs. now, looking at the kind of guy I dated then vs. who I'd date now etc. I'm not saying it can't work, just saying that in my opinion, odds are more in favor of waiting until you're a little older. Of course, there are exceptions and not everyone is like me, but I only have my experiences and experiences of my peers to draw from in order to make an argument that I believe in.
Quote:Also subjective. Depends. I don't disagree.Then why did they even question it if they believed in it so much?
Point is, if they think it deserves a chance, that's the route to go.
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - GreasyItalianPrincess - 06-23-2003
Point is...what's to lose?
Sometimes you need to take a jump. Let things sort itself. If it doesn't work, hell, it doesn't work. BUT...
At least they made an effort. Tried to make something happen.
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - MYLF - 06-23-2003
My point is, if they're asking what to do, then they must have doubts.
As for what's to lose, well, that's subjective too. Again, personally speaking, if I were to move to a new city, I'd want to be free to do whatever without pining away for some guy back home. And no, free to do whatever does not mean sex. And also personally speaking, if it was such a great love, I'd say, pack up your shit and come with me.
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - GreasyItalianPrincess - 06-23-2003
Good points. It's an interesting debate. :bouncy:
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - MYLF - 06-23-2003
I think in the end, everyone has to do what's right for them.
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - Rooner - 06-24-2003
Awww, GIP missed me, thats why he started this thread so long ago.
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - GreasyItalianPrincess - 06-24-2003
i thought you were dead, actually.
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder? - Rooner - 06-24-2003
Quote:Originally posted by GreasyItalianPrincess
i thought you were dead, actually.
AH HA! but no denial of missing me. GOTCHA!