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Ok, a while back I really liked this girl. I was enfatuated with her, so one day I mustered up the courage, along with the support of some friends and Julia, I wrote gave her a rose and wrote her a card telling her how I felt. She said she liked some other guy. So out of no where....keep in mind I havent spoken to her since then (about october-november)....today while I was walking in the halls to class she softly grabbed my arm, like not trying to grab hard or anything, and then she just kept walking. What should I do or say? I have no clue what to fucking think about that because she did in fact shit on my feelings not too long ago, but I think I'm a sucker and still like her....Ideas anyone? :confused:
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I'm way too old to remember high school politics, but my suggestion is to not do anything. If she likes you, let her come and talk to you. How great can she be anyway? Find a new girl that appreciates you.
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hahaha, girl + appreciate me = no where to be found. nuff said
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Then just stay single until you find someone who does appreciate you. It'll happen, but probably not until you're a bit older. Wha? There's got to be something good about getting older
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Eh, appreciation is overrated, even when you're older. Get some tail. :grin2:
Anyway, feel out the situation (no pun intended). This *could* be an indication that she digs you, or it could have been nothing.
Don't be blatant about showing her you're still interested, make her work for it a bit. Don't give her the idea that you're NOT interested, but let her get flirty with you before you go in for the kill.
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Meatwad she sounds like a fucking tease to me. Do yourselfa favor and pay no attention to her she'll either start wanting to get in your pants really bad or be completely disgusted and leave you alone forever. It's really a win win situation. Seriously, you were hung up on her for a long time and she just started showing the slightest bit of interest...i would not make too big of a deal about it. Just talk to her a little maybe and see what she thinks of you now.
But what would i know, i'm just a Dyke.
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since that happened maybe next time you see her in the hallways say hey or wave or something and see how she reacts.
but dont let her fucking play with your head...girls tend to do that
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The chick was flirting with you.
a) Decide if you're ready to be played with again all in the name of the opportunity to be near pussy even if the possibility of penetrating it may seem miniscule at best.
b) Should you decide to proceed, I suggest that you try smiling at her the next time she flirts with you, or simply saying "What's up?" as in a hello or good bye. Do not prolong the conversation.
If I could gage your ability at flirting back to be above sub par I would suggest you do that, but the fact that you have to ask leads me to assume that you'd just turn her off if you did anything other than the above.
Simply put, quiet aloof guys don't often shove their feet in their mouths.
c) NEVER EVER EVER IN A MILLION FUCKING YEARS PUT ANY OF YOUR EMOTIONS FOR THIS CHICK IN WRITING AGAIN.
Just so you are aware, her best friend, sister, cousin, neighbor, aunt and the bag lady at the A & P were all laughing it up to your previous card and she probably brings it out at parties or whenever she's feeling blue to relive the laughter.
You're welcome.
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Thanks Silera....anyone happen to have an extra shotgun lying around?
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youre doing just fine
just always remember that girls are evil bitches