Is it ever ok to cheat?

[MYLF]

I'm sorry, but I find it hard to believe that every single one of you has never had sex for the sole purpose of fucking. There doesn't need to be a reason behind it other than you want to fuck right then and there. None of you have ever been to a point that you were so fucking horny you didn't think about it, you just fucked? C'mon people, I've met quite a few of you and I know that can't be the case.

No, I've never been that horny and presumably if I was with someone and things were good, I'd be with him, not out without him checking out hot guys. Again, brings me back to agreeing with tinymike that there something wrong in the relationship.

[SLASH]

I've never fucked.

[MYLF]

Ever been fucked?

[SLASH]

uh huh

[armymad]

i say it ok to cheat on your significant others , if the are cool with it

[Ninny]

Originally posted by armymad
i say it ok to cheat on your significant others , if the are cool with it

If it's consentual its not exactly "cheating" is it?

[dru]

Originally posted by tinymike
People cheat on their significant others because they are missing something in the relationship, whether it be physical, emotional, psychological, financial or otherwise, including their freedom. They seek what they don't have from someone who may be able to provide it for them.

Think about it, why would you go with someone else if you're boyfriend or girlfriend or wife or husband is giving you everything you need?

Is it okay to cheat? I have a better question for you. . . . Who are we to judge?

i think people cheat cause they want variety. not that they don't love their significant other, just that they want something different everyonce in a while.

like going for cookies n cream instead of always having pistachio.

[dru]

Originally posted by RapeFantasizer

I'm sorry, but I find it hard to believe that every single one of you has never had sex for the sole purpose of fucking. There doesn't need to be a reason behind it other than you want to fuck right then and there. None of you have ever been to a point that you were so fucking horny you didn't think about it, you just fucked? C'mon people, I've met quite a few of you and I know that can't be the case.

i don't thnk i have. & maybe the one time that i did, it turned into the relationship that i am in now.

it's pretty nice having someone to call up & say "get your ass over here" to.

[tinymike]

Originally posted by dru

i think people cheat cause they want variety. not that they don't love their significant other, just that they want something different everyonce in a while.

like going for cookies n cream instead of always having pistachio.

This is a situation where "what they're missing" is the variety. if you want variety, why not make it different with the person you're with. Role play, different positions, different places. Why would you go to someone else for 'variety'?

I can try to answer this with your ice cream analogy. It's because you never fulfilled your desire to sample all the flavors that peaked your interest before you settled on you favorite flavor. Commitment (marriage, bf, gf, etc...) is about settling down with the one flavor you love the most and being content to have that one flavor and none other. If you still want to vanilla after you've commited to pistachio, then maybe you shouldn't have settled and looked around some more before you did.

And as for those that wrote: 'it's okay to cheat if you're partner is okay with it', that's not cheating. That's called an Open Relationship. Cheating is when you see someone else and HE/SHE doesn't know about it.

[dru]

i do agree with you to some extent.

i've had this conversation a few times. Jorge always says "men are naturally permiscuous." (sp?)

he always mentions this study where they put a male & female monkey in a cage together & the male banged her til he got bored. then they put another female in the cage & he went right for the stranger.

i don't know how happy i am about this study. but he makes a good point.