05-19-2003, 08:44 PM
I had a stalker once, it was not pretty. I qualified him as a stalker for the following reasons:
1. I broke up with him yet he continued to call me and show up when he wasn't wanted.
2. He broke into my apartment and got the phone number of the new guy I saw seeing, and tracked me down 2 states away.
3. He showed up outside of my classes (this was in college) to tell me he loved me or hated me - depended on his mood.
4. He showed up at my apt with a knife, ready to kill me and my new bf. Now, that sounds rather dramatic, but he was harmless, and he wouldn't have hurt a fly, but he was still a stalker.
And this doesn't qualify him as a stalker, it just simply made him annoying as hell - he used to call me in the middle of the night, drunk off his ass and making a complete ass out of himself.
Eventually, college ended, I moved, and he no longer knew how to get in touch with me, which was a major relief as the above stuff had gone on for months.
1. I broke up with him yet he continued to call me and show up when he wasn't wanted.
2. He broke into my apartment and got the phone number of the new guy I saw seeing, and tracked me down 2 states away.
3. He showed up outside of my classes (this was in college) to tell me he loved me or hated me - depended on his mood.
4. He showed up at my apt with a knife, ready to kill me and my new bf. Now, that sounds rather dramatic, but he was harmless, and he wouldn't have hurt a fly, but he was still a stalker.
And this doesn't qualify him as a stalker, it just simply made him annoying as hell - he used to call me in the middle of the night, drunk off his ass and making a complete ass out of himself.
Eventually, college ended, I moved, and he no longer knew how to get in touch with me, which was a major relief as the above stuff had gone on for months.