05-22-2003, 10:40 PM
I pretty much agree w. Amy. Every case is different and also, the relationship often goes through stages.
At first, all I want to do is spend time with my girl...but after a while, I do want to spend time with my boys and such.
I think it is something that you should try not to set up. Don't make a definitive rule or anything...just take it as it comes.
if you enjoy being with that person 24/7, so be it...if you need time for yourself, that's cool too.
There should be enough security and trust within the relationship that whenever one says "hey, I'm gonna go hang with my friends tonight" the other should be like "cool, we'll talk tommorrrow, have fun...call me when you get in IF you want to. otherwise, we'll talk tommorrow"
at least, IMO.
At first, all I want to do is spend time with my girl...but after a while, I do want to spend time with my boys and such.
I think it is something that you should try not to set up. Don't make a definitive rule or anything...just take it as it comes.
if you enjoy being with that person 24/7, so be it...if you need time for yourself, that's cool too.
There should be enough security and trust within the relationship that whenever one says "hey, I'm gonna go hang with my friends tonight" the other should be like "cool, we'll talk tommorrrow, have fun...call me when you get in IF you want to. otherwise, we'll talk tommorrow"
at least, IMO.