I put this in the wrong place....

[BITENY]

Ok, so now that I've moved the thread...
Here ya go......

Ok, here's my scenario...

There's me, my boyfriend & then there's Jared. Jared is our friend- we all went to high school together.
Now- there's Felicia & Lauren who live together w/my ex bf living in the basement. And Jared is friends with Felicia & Lauren (whom we also went to HS with-my ex is Lauren's brother also).
When it was the end of our relationship, Jared would be a friend to me (sorta) and just do friend-like duties. (talk to me, give his opinion, etc).
So now that Felicia & Lauren live together w/my Ex, Jared goes over there to hang out on a regluar basis, smoking, chillin, whatever. And now he hangs out with my ex- smoking, etc. Which doesn't sit well with me at all.
So, I've made my feelings known to him and all he can say is \"sorry\". Fine- hang out w/Felicia & Lauren but why do you have to & hang out w/the p.o.s.? And now that he goes & hangs out there, he never calls me anymore to hang out, nor my boyfriend. And I was totally honest with him last week & said \"I know why we haven't hung out...it's because you have the luxury of smoking in a house, sitting down & relaxing, whereas with me, you'd have to sit in your car & smoke...\" and he didn't like that. Why? Because I was honest. And I have not hung out w/this kid since like, 2 1/2 weeks ago. Possibly longer. And my boyfriend keeps telling me that he's inconsiderate, he's selfish and he only cares about himself & no one else's feelings. And he's amazed at how they've been friends for almost 10 yrs.
But fine - he's gonna do what he wants when he wants. But at the same time, he's also hurting my feelings, and totally disrespecting me. Before the week is even over- he's already made his plans to hang out there.
So, I must sound like a whino, but I just needed to get this out. I need opinions here too. Reassure me that I'm actually seeing this kid for who & what he really is.