Can someone be trained to be a good wife?

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well that would be a perfect world right?

I only ask because isn't one person's idea of what a perfect husband/wife possibly different from another person's idea? How can you teach it in a class or a book. Other than through communication between the husband and wife.

I'm a lazy ass by nature. The last thing I need is a wife that does everything for me like cooking and cleaning. I consider my wife to be the perfect wife for me. But she'd not necessarily be another person's ideal.