04-13-2004, 01:07 PM
The question is not being an individual and rebel and marching to the beat of one's own drummer....it's being so much that inclined so that it can be a negative. Our whole family, including TheDude and I cast from the same mold...we shirk family/tradition/rules/etc by nature. But, I think some of the men on my Dad's side take it to the Nth degree, and I don't want to end up like them....so stuck in their ways and stubborn at times.