Is it ever ok to cheat?

[Crackle]

Here's the reason most people cheat............ALCOHOL




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[60FeetUnderWater]

that old gag








had to use it. had to "go there". HAD TO.

[Keyser Soze]

men almost exclusively cheat cause they like to fuck all different kind of women.

women cheat for emotional reasons, for the most part, not always, sometimes its for the same reason men do.

cheating sucks but it happens. in a perfect relationship you can come to an understanding that you can't possibly fulfill every single need but somehow thats still enough.

people who are in a relationship where they allow their partner to fuck other people amazes me. i dont know how they do it or allow it.

[RapeFantasizer]

people who are in a relationship where they allow their partner to fuck other people amazes me. i dont know how they do it or allow it.

Sex can be just that, sex. There doesn't need to be feeling behind it to fuck someone. I think if two people are secure enough in their emotional relationship than having sex with other people shouldn't matter, so long as there are no emotions behind it and it's just sex.

[JimmyBlueEyes]

There's always some kind of emotion in it. Even if one person denies it. If it's horniness or lust or just letting out the fact you really wanna fuck someone. Or the fact that you actually like someone. Hopefully it's love.

[GreasyItalianPrincess]

Originally posted by MYLF

I'm sorry, but I find it hard to believe that every single one of you has never had sex for the sole purpose of fucking. There doesn't need to be a reason behind it other than you want to fuck right then and there. None of you have ever been to a point that you were so fucking horny you didn't think about it, you just fucked? C'mon people, I've met quite a few of you and I know that can't be the case.

No, I've never been that horny and presumably if I was with someone and things were good, I'd be with him, not out without him checking out hot guys. Again, brings me back to agreeing with tinymike that there something wrong in the relationship.

dead-on. I agree.

[Ninny]

I'm sorry, but I find it hard to believe that every single one of you has never had sex for the sole purpose of fucking. There doesn't need to be a reason behind it other than you want to fuck right then and there. None of you have ever been to a point that you were so fucking horny you didn't think about it, you just fucked? C'mon people, I've met quite a few of you and I know that can't be the case.

I personally have never slept with someone for the "sole purpose of fucking". I do not fuck someone i have never met, or someone i have for that matter with no reason at hand other than a raging libido. I think it is very ignorant to assume that just because you may have sex this way that most people do.Getting back to the subject at hand i see cheating as a sign of weakness, if you cannot stay with one person for whatever reason it may be, then you shouldn't be in a relationship at all.Clearly there is too much going on in your life at that point and if working through it doesn't help how is cheating going to; it's not, it's just going to be an easy out and make you look the part you played, an untrustworthy, scumbag. I honestly don't think that I would put myself(knowingly) into a situation as dangerous as fucking with no ties of any kind, just plain old fucking, we can't really afford ourselves that kind of thrill in the world we live in today. I would rather have sex with someone that i know and respect on all levels then just feel lust for, it's more satisfying. This is of course my own opinion im not saying that you should make it your own im simply stating as to the relevance of the thread.

[Crackle]

I do not fuck someone i have never met

Shit, I'd stick my dick in a gloryhole.

[RapeFantasizer]

I personally have never slept with someone for the \"sole purpose of fucking\". I do not fuck someone i have never met, or someone i have for that matter with no reason at hand other than a raging libido. I think it is very ignorant to assume that just because you may have sex this way that most people do

I never said most people do it, I just said that every single person on the board can't say they haven't done that.

Clearly there is too much going on in your life at that point and if working through it doesn't help how is cheating going to; it's not, it's just going to be an easy out and make you look the part you played, an untrustworthy, scumbag.

Perhaps you didn't read my entire post. I'm not talking about going behind your bf/gf/wife/husband's back and sleeping around. I truly believe that a relationship can reach a level of security where an occasional romp in the sack with someone else wouldn't matter, and could be discussed between the people in the relationship.

There's always some kind of emotion in it. Even if one person denies it. If it's horniness or lust or just letting out the fact you really wanna fuck someone.

To me, an emotion is something in your head and in your heart, horniness doesn't fit there. Actually, neither does lust. Emotion is what separates lust from love.

[Ninny]

Perhaps you didn't read my entire post. I'm not talking about going behind your bf/gf/wife/husband's back and sleeping around. I truly believe that a relationship can reach a level of security where an occasional romp in the sack with someone else wouldn't matter, and could be discussed between the people in the relationship.

You're right i did not read your entire post, perhaps i should have. I just don't understand why(if so secure) in your relationship you would come across the want to sleep with someone else, even if it is for physical thrill or whatnot. Maybe it all has to do with how comfortable you are in your relationship but it still sounds kind of crazy to me and i for one would never want to have that.