I think it all depends on the person you're with....long sex is more intimate so you really have to be more than just "into" the person....with a quickie, sometimes its more about just getting your f' on than anything. So my vote is....both...I like 'em both, but the long sex is better cause you feel more better after.
quickies bow. there should be a good amount of foreplay. not too much though. i say no matter what the woman should finish first. i feel the more gooder job i do on her the more gooder job she does to me.
Quote:long sex is more intimate so you really have to be more than just "into" the person....
You're kidding, right?
There have been quite a few "first" times that lasted hours and hours...
I mean, that's how you learn your way around your partner, and if there's good long sex...
You probably will become closer to that person...
Quote:You're kidding, right?
There have been quite a few "first" times that lasted hours and hours...
Nope...only had "first time" sex once that lasted a long time but that's because there were LOTS of feelings there....usually it's more like a quickie first time and then it builds up.
OK...I guess that's you...I like to take it real slow, until you just wanna rip each others clothes off...
And then take the rest of the night to get to know my way around...
I guess I'm just one of those Mongrels, you speak of then. I don't have much patience.... but if he is going slow, and makes me wait...... that's so hot too. (ocassionally)
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Quote:I like to take it real slow, until you just wanna rip each others clothes off...
And then take the rest of the night to get to know my way around...
So do I...it just doesn't always work out that way....the type of sex you're describing is the absolute best.....
So what you guys are saying is Deeper Feelings = Better Sex?
Not necessarilly...but, there are times when the better sex can lead to deeper feelings...