CDIH

even better obsession songs:
1. i want you- elvis costello
2. every breath you take- the police

Quote:These days, the slightest complication and I'm out. I don't want to argue with the chick I'm dating, I don't want any drama or games. I have enough problems of my own, I don't need some broad giving me grief.

NO relationship will be without conflict K1d. But if you can work through the conflict without killing each other or go insane, then you have finally found someone truly special.

Quote:NO relationship will be without conflict K1d. But if you can work through the conflict without killing each other or go insane, then you have finally found someone truly special.

That and a visit from the love doctor on the next Oprah.

I also had the older divorced woman thing happen to me...
She told me right from the start that it was just for the summer...
Then she started telling me she loved me...
Summer came to an end...I was confused as to what I should do...
We parted ways...But I don't go a single day that she doesn't cross my mind...

My wife, on the other hand...
Is like fucking heroin...
I keep hoping I'll O.D. cause I Definately can't get myself to quit.

Sluggo Wrote:I also had the older divorced woman thing happen to me...
My wife, on the other hand...
Is like fucking heroin...
I keep hoping I'll O.D. cause I Definately can't get myself to quit.

That has to be the best comparison I have seen equated with a woman in a long time, you get a cookie for that one. :roltflmao:

Sean Cold Wrote:

Quote:I also had the older divorced woman thing happen to me...
My wife, on the other hand...
Is like fucking heroin...
I keep hoping I'll O.D. cause I Definately can't get myself to quit.

That has to be the best comparison I have seen equated with a woman in a long time, you get a cookie for that one. :roltflmao:

i got a cookie once, until AM fucked it all up

Yeah, well I got anal for half a cookie once.

Quote:Yeah, well I got anal for half a cookie once.

i assume you were paying the half a cookie to get anal



Edited By Arpikarhu on Jan. 24 2002 at 3:33

Quote:These days, the slightest complication and I'm out.

Quote:NO relationship will be without conflict K1d. But if you can work through the conflict without killing each other or go insane, then you have finally found someone truly special.

Yup, you're not at all ready for a relationship. Anything good requires work. I've been with my man since I was 17, we've both grown-up, had life-changing experiences, and went through a lot of fucking rough patches along the way. I don't know why we're still together, I guess we're addicted to each other. Now, instead of long, drawn-out battles, we bicker and bitch at each other for sport...or just have a quick 5-minute screaming, pushing, throwing things...then, the best part about fighting: the make-up/angry sex afterward.

Relationships without conflict are possible, it's called communication. If you are careful with what you say because you are afraid to show your true emotions, you are not in a relationship. These are the types of conflicts I have no time for. I believe in being totally honest with someone you are interested in, from the beginning. Unfortunately, women are far too manipulative to deal with a relationship in an honest and forthright manner. Thus then, I will continue to date women for a few weeks and then ditch them when I find that they cannot communicate openly. It's fine with me, I really don't care.

I mean, yeah gettin' laid frequently is pretty fuckin' nice, but the baggage that comes with it is not worth it, to me.

Quote:went through a lot of fucking rough patches

try a lube. i hear astro-glide is good

Quote:try a lube. i hear astro-glide is good

Arpi...
It seems that we're finally getting some good, at least semi-intelligent topics going...And you can't stop with the fucking around.
:no, really, fuck off:

Sluggo Wrote:

Quote:try a lube. i hear astro-glide is good

Arpi...
It seems that we're finally getting some good, at least semi-intelligent topics going...And you can't stop with the fucking around.
:no, really, fuck off:

boo hoo

Has anyone ever cheated on someone and they find out and you were still able to patch the relationship up over time? Do you all feel that once that trust is broken once it can never be found again?

Keyser Soze Wrote:Has anyone ever cheated on someone and they find out and you were still able to patch the relationship up over time? Do you all feel that once that trust is broken once it can never be found again?

i have been on both sides and it never works. when i cheated, even though i meant to be faithful from that point on , she was always questioning me about my movements till it drove me crazy. plus the dam had been broken and my eye kept wandering. when a girl i dated cheated on me i never trusted her again.

Arpikarhu Wrote:

Quote:Has anyone ever cheated on someone and they find out and you were still able to patch the relationship up over time? Do you all feel that once that trust is broken once it can never be found again?

i have been on both sides and it never works. when i cheated, even though i meant to be faithful from that point on , she was always questioning me about my movements till it drove me crazy. plus the dam had been broken and my eye kept wandering. when a girl i dated cheated on me i never trusted her again.

Yeah, i've been on both sides as well. Its sad but true but it never seems to work again.

Yes...It has happened to me...I forgave...
It's been pushed back...But not forgotten...
The only time I feel untrusting...
Is when I'm feeling beaten down...For whatever reason...

Sluggo Wrote:Yes...It has happened to me...I forgave...
It's been pushed back...But not forgotten...
The only time I feel untrusting...
Is when I'm feeling beaten down...For whatever reason...

I'd have to walk a thousand miles in your shoes to understand how you have been able to forgive her.

Obsessions are ugly when they go really really wrong. I've dumped 2 ex gf's cuz they were totally obsessed. A month or into each of the relationships, they were both talking marriage and kids. WTF?

On the other hand, I've been obsessed with 2 people in my life. One I'm over. Talk about an addiction. We only dated for 6 months but 3 years of my life was wasted on this chick back in college.

My latest obsession has been going on for over 9 years now. I got so obsessed with her, I married her. Who would'a knew?

Came really close a couple of times..but I couldn't do it. I couldn't break Mr. Spit's trust....and he lets me get away with A LOT

My theory on cheating is--If you wanna be with people other than the one you're with, then why are you with that person in the first place? Break up with them, then fuck whoever you want


PS :love: the Sluggo



Edited By Spitfire on Jan. 24 2002 at 4:01