I'm not sure how, but you managed to start a thread almost exactly identical to one I was thinking of at around 8:30 tonight.
That's really fuckin freaky.
There's something I have learned. Sure, I'm not as old as some of the people around here. But in my short 27 years of life, I've realized that there are different levels of love. I was deeply in love when I got married. Never thought I'd have to go out and find love again. But I did. And it's even more amazing than anything I've ever felt. This person lights up my entire soul, and my entire body smiles when I think about her.
No matter where you are in life, there's always something waiting for you just around the corner. You just have to open your eyes and notice it.
I've only truly loved and lost once....it still hurts sometimes when I think about it. I knew him for five years before we ended up together, and we were together for about two....everything about him felt like it completed me, and then it ended and I almost completely fell apart. The funny thing is, since then, I've been with other people, and one person in particular who has shown me just how much was really missing from what I used to think was so great...now I wonder if it was truly love in the way its supposed to be.
A lot of people accuse me of being shallow and treating girls like shit. I think part of that comes from the fact that I lost the one perfect girl because I wasn't perfect enough; and that self-loathing has followed me in my relationships to this day.
I did... but it ended, and...
Quote:i haven't found someone like that since. That was the one that got away, and no one else has ever compared... as much as i want to find one better.
Once you've driven a Ferrari, aint no way in Hell you're gonna be happy with a pinto.
Yeah, that pretty much explains it for me too.
Quote:and do a mean charleston, swing baby, swing!!
I do :banana:
I loved & lost, because it had no where to go anyway.
It was the best & the worst at the same time.
I'm not sorry for the experience.
had it once
but it was selfishly ripped away
don't know about love anymore
i need a drink
I fell in love with a girl then she was seeing her ex along with me at one point. She didn't break up with me until he got into a car wreck b/c he was driving drunk. Then she told me that she was seeing him. Now, that crushed me. This guy who treated her like shit was on his death bed and he was chosen over me. We were only seeing each other for about a year and a half, but still... I think I'm lucking out with the current girlfriend though. I still think about the ex every now and then and wondering if she's still seeing the cripple. :fuckoff:
uicide: :burnfucker:
Loved, lost, got her back. Took a LOT of understanding both ways, but I'm very happy to be with her now.
Quote:But in my short 27 years of life, I've realized that there are different levels of love.
Truer words have never been spoken.
There is the hot & passionate love, which often burns itself out.
There is the quiet and stable love, where you know just what the other person is thinking.
and often combinations of the 2.
I've had the first, but it never lasted long enough to cause real damage to my soul.
The second type I still have.
Do I miss the passionate type? to be truthful, yes, but the pragmatic part of me realizes that If I traded what I have for the hot short flame I wouldn't be happy for long.
But that's me....
Oh and luna, it's nice to know there is someone else here (besides OAS) that actually remembers the 80's...
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Is this "love" thing related in any way to the "condom" thing?
Quote:Is this "love" thing related in any way to the "condom" thing?
that reminds me of a guy I knew in college. He used to tell me all about this chick that he was bangin'. Then one day she got pregnant. I asked him - didn't you use birth control? he replied "no, I'm a good Irish Catholic".
They wound up getting married, and miraculously she became a virgin before she got pregnant.
Quote:They wound up getting married, and miraculously she became a virgin before she got pregnant.
Silera's twice the virgin she was.
i remember the 80's, actually...
Quote:There is the hot & passionate love,
:loveya:
Quote:i remember the 80's, actually...
Well sure, you couldn't escape it, all the music came from your frickin' country.
Quote:Well sure, you couldn't escape it, all the music came from your frickin' country.
What's the difference between Ivory Soap and Simon LeBon, *wacky horn*