marriage/compromises....

Goatweed · 06-13-2003, 04:27 AM

and wives who just don't fucking get it :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff:

Weird NJ · 06-13-2003, 04:33 AM

Let me guess.. you want periwinkle tiles and she wants teaberry.

crx girl · 06-13-2003, 04:33 AM

:29:

Goatweed · 06-13-2003, 04:38 AM

I just want a little compromise - I'm tired of bending. It's not just this, either.

Weird NJ · 06-13-2003, 04:40 AM

:24:

Hybrid · 06-13-2003, 04:47 AM

cagematch is the only answer

The Jays · 06-13-2003, 04:56 AM

... true... :5:

Hey Ladi · 06-13-2003, 01:03 PM

I dread turning into a wife

flamingfish · 06-13-2003, 01:23 PM

why do people feel the need to enter into an arranged relationship? why do you need someone else to tell you that you are together, do you realy need a lisence to spend time with a person? :17:

Ronin · 06-13-2003, 01:38 PM

what happened, horny goatweed?

Danked · 06-13-2003, 01:52 PM

I bet she wants him to spend less time with his internet friends. :-(

LZMF1 · 06-13-2003, 01:55 PM

lemme guess goaty....she won't budge...it's her way or the highway.....all you're asking for is a compromise and she'll have none of that!!!!

if that's the case.......that sucks!

Goatweed · 06-13-2003, 02:03 PM

Quote:what happened, horny goatweed?

[obi wan kenobi]Now that's a name I haven't heard...for a long time...[obi wan kenobi]

Long story short - I had mad plans for this weekend, they got derailed because the wife and her side of the family feel every goddamn holiday needs to be a "family" gathering, and neither one of us can miss these "gatherings" because "family" is important. Meanwhile, it's father's day - to me, it's not the greatest holiday anyway since my dad has since passed on - and granted, it was partly my fault since I forgot it was this weekend (thought it was next weekend) but if anyone in her family decided to throw a fucking Tupperware party, it's like "everyone has to be there" and it's fucking annoying already. Maybe because my side of the family is very small I look at things differently, but it's not like we never see these people - for christ's sake, my father-in-law lives downstairs, I see him every day! I'm just tired of always having to bend and cater to these things, this isnt the first time and arguing with her is pointless - plus arguing lessens my chances of getting laid, which are far and few between as it is.

I think I just need a vacation from everything - between all the work I'm doing at the house, at my job and dealing with her during all this...it's just a drag. I still love my wife, but there's only so much bullshit I can take.

LZMF1 · 06-13-2003, 02:11 PM

d00d...that really sucks because you cannot win the argument no matter what you say so just give in and be miserable.

i'm not saying that to be a dick...it's just that you're in a tough spot and you don't seem to have very many options :-(

Danked · 06-13-2003, 02:16 PM

I think your wife is right. :6:

Goatweed · 06-13-2003, 02:24 PM

Quote:I bet she wants him to spend less time with his internet friends

actually no, I don't think she cares either way - she just wants me at every goddamn function because everyone else manages to make them. Besides, she should be happy - my internet friends help to keep me sane.

Quote:d00d...that really sucks because you cannot win the argument no matter what you say so just give in and be miserable.

that's why I posted these :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff: :fuckoff:

Quote::6:

rub a little more salt in, why doncha?

LZMF1 · 06-13-2003, 02:26 PM

sorry goaty...you're not the only one that i know that has these problems....

i don't but quite a few of my buddies do.

Danked · 06-13-2003, 02:28 PM

:39:

Goatweed · 06-13-2003, 02:33 PM

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LZMF1 · 06-13-2003, 02:34 PM

i guess mrs. goat doesn't understand that you might need "your own space" and that you'd rather not spend every waking moment with "the family"

shit...i come from a large family and they're all about doing "the family thing" and i avoid them all like the plague...i moved back into morris county where all of my family lives and i still do my best to avoid them. my wife and i do the family type bullshit when we have to but for the most part neither of us have the desire to do shit like that constantly

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