01-07-2005, 09:53 PM
GonzoStyle Wrote:so everyone who doesn't cheat is miserable. And the only way to have a healthy marriage is by cheating in secret?Keyser Soze Wrote:good point, imagine one of these savages marrying your sister or daughter???god forbid they have a healthy marriage.
It's better to marry someone who will never cheat but will simply be miserable with you the rest of your life and will end up hating you. Then it turns into a "You know i'd never hit you baby, it was an accident".. fast forward a couple years and you're walking around in a stained wife beater tee, unwashed, drunk and hating everything and everyone, molesting your children.... but cheating is bad.
I never said anything about staying with someone you are miserable. If you are miserable, then you shouldn't be married. Try to fix it. If it's unfixable then get out. That's why you communicate. And you can't have good communication with your spouse if you're going to be keeping all these secrets from her (like fucking other people)