08-26-2008, 12:29 PM
almostmainer Wrote:kaboobie92 Wrote:define marriage for me
A religious ceremony that should not be government sanctioned. Let the churches deal with gay marriage. Then there would be none. Give gays there civil unions, hell make everyones' a civil union. Then what would gays say? The only reason they want it called "marriage" is so they can feel "normal". I'm sorry being gay is not "normal". I have gay friends, and I don't think their bad people. Their just not normal. Maybe if the gay issue wasn't shoved in our faces so much there wouldn't be a backlash. When gay groups want to help 2nd graders figure out if they want to be a boy or a girl, decide if their gay,thats a problem.
Actually there are a lot of gay actions demonstrated by animals, who have much less conscious thought than humans, so it's kind of just innate in living beings. I don't think gays want to get married to feel normal, I could have went my whole life without getting married and I would have felt normal still. I think a large part of it is fact that they're being told who they can and can't love. Love isn't really an emotion that can be controlled. We only get one chance at life, I think it's kind of silly to hold back and be unhappy just because someone doesn't like such a harmless action. The gay issue has to be shoved in our faces before it's going to be accepted. Once the majority accepts gays, then it will die down like racism did.