What do you think?

[Torque]

I agree with the calming down advice, but not with the faking it/toning down yourself. Instead of repressing I think it would be better to figure out WHY you do what you do. i.e. you not wanting to wait a whole week for a second date may not be because you are inherently an impatient and quickly swooning individual, you may just have issues feeling pressured that if you don't "capture" someone quickly you may lose the chance or something. Just try to be more confident in that taking your time and letting things happen naturally, someone good for you will be understanding enough to not hurry or get to certain "stages" by certain deadlines, because you should want it to take the rest of your lives to learn about and be interested in each other. There's no disappearing pumpkin and fall of cinderella at midnight.