11-05-2008, 02:30 PM
Mad Dog Wrote:fetusfacedwindbag Wrote:
Yeah. You better hope she doesn't call you, and then you call her two days after the date. Playing hard to get is super cliche, but it's true....
any females like to back me up on this one?
Ok, so why is it true. Why, if I'm very intrested in a particular girl, should I NOT let her know I'm intrested? It sounds backwards and stupid to me. Please don't take offence. Also why should I hope she wouldn't call me?? Isn't that counter productive? And suppose you are right, why are women so backwards? Err at least some women. Isn't the WHOLE POINT of being attracted to someone is to be drawn together? How can you do that if you ignore them? I guess I just don't get it.
People naturally want what they can't have. Think about it. Any time a woman has shown you some attention and then taken that attention away, did you find yourself wanting her more? Any time there has been a CAR that you couldn't have, didn't you want that car more?
That's totally overly simplified and a major generalization, but it kinda speaks a truth.
If the girl calls you, she's not playing by the rules, and she's either one of two things A. totally badass and perfect for you or B. desperate....and you don't want someone that's desperate.