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[potthole]

#1 Why would you view a phone call as aggressive or desperate?

#2 You have absolutely no right bashing me for being in the process of a divorce! You don't know anything about it, and I'll be damned if I'll let some shit head on a chat forum give me a hard time for it!! Go eff yourself!!

1. I say calling right away after a first date comes off as aggressive and/or desperate, because, well, it does. I learned that the hard way from personal experience a time or two.

It's all fine and dandy to let the person you're dating know you're interested, but calling them up right away isn't the best way to do that. Let things chill for a day or two, then give a call. It doesn't come off as strongly.

2. My post was just stating that in my book, getting relationship advice from somebody who is just recently divorced isn't the best thing to do. Obviously something didn't go right in their relationship.

Oh, and I don't need to go eff myself. I've got a WIFE who loves to do that.

No, I think pottholes intention was to bash me and insult maddog.

Why yes, that's exactly what I was looking to do. Oh no, you caught me. Whatever.

Mad has been asking for advice. I'm offering some. I've mentioned my opinion on calling up a girl right away. Yup, that's REAL insulting!

Also, you don't want to be open to people making comments about your divorce? Don't go posting about it frequently on public forum.