12-22-2008, 11:16 AM
Allyson, it really is up to you, but my mom changed her middle name to her maiden name so she is Barbara T****** S**********. I thought about doing that, but my maiden name was 11 letters long, my husband's mom's last name is different cause she got remarried, plus I like my husband's family better than my own most fo the time. You do realize that you marry a family, not just a guy, and if his mother makes you want to barf, you might want to think about this a little more....