12-24-2008, 12:47 PM
Allyson Wrote:Mad Dog Wrote:Whats his deal? Why do you think he is trying to delay it? My divorce wasn't my choice, but I realized My marriage wasn't going to work anymore, so I didn't contest. I wasn't at all happy about it. I may have pouted, but I didn't drag my feet.
He's probably just pissy that he thought he could take his wife and kids for granted, not thinking Lisa would have the balls to kick him out. Good for you, leave that a-hole out to dry.
Ohhhh, the reason is a gem!!! He doesn't want the divorce until February because, by law, I'm still paying his health insurance. He just started a new job (because he got fired from his last one) and won't be able to get insurance until then. Apparently the proceeds from selling the $250,000 house that we owned wasn't enough for him!!! He got all the proceeds, you'd think he could afford a COBRA payment for a month on his own!! So, yes Allyson, he still thinks he can take advantage of me and manipulate me. And he's mad that I have made a good life for me and the girls in our new home that I own, while he is living in two rooms of a house that one of his sisters friends owns. 45 years old and back to roommates! That's progress!