12-28-2008, 04:43 AM
What is the final victory? How do we know for sure when we die we go to heaven to be with Him? Being raised Catholic, we had the fear of God put into us...he's always watching, he's always listening...how do we know for sure? How do some of those priests justify what they did to those children (remember that controversy?) My hubby says it's a crock of shit cause they can do whatever they want and go to confession and get pardoned for their sins with a few Hail Marys and two of The Lords Prayer...
What do you tell the parents of a 2 month old that has died of SIDS...he's fulfilled his destiny and purpose and now has to go home to God, sorry you didn't get more time...what about people that are desperate for a child, praying all the time, begging God for one and it never happens? Why? I wasn't even trying to have a second one and whamo...here she is. Hell I wasn't even trying to have the first one...don't get me wrong, love my kids, wouldn't trade them for the world, but how come I got 2 beautiful, healthy children and some people can't even have 1? I mess up all the time with them...I get frustrated and loud and I don't like spanking them but I do it...so what's gonna happen to me when I die? Am I going to hell cause I didn't fully appreciate his gifts to me? I never asked to be pregnant, I was even taking the pill and still.....All I know for sure is that I try to live a good and decent life, I try to be nice to everyone, I don't Eff around on my husband, I don't steal or cheat...but I do cuss like a sailor...so I can only hope that whatever happens to me in the end it's all worth it.
What do you tell the parents of a 2 month old that has died of SIDS...he's fulfilled his destiny and purpose and now has to go home to God, sorry you didn't get more time...what about people that are desperate for a child, praying all the time, begging God for one and it never happens? Why? I wasn't even trying to have a second one and whamo...here she is. Hell I wasn't even trying to have the first one...don't get me wrong, love my kids, wouldn't trade them for the world, but how come I got 2 beautiful, healthy children and some people can't even have 1? I mess up all the time with them...I get frustrated and loud and I don't like spanking them but I do it...so what's gonna happen to me when I die? Am I going to hell cause I didn't fully appreciate his gifts to me? I never asked to be pregnant, I was even taking the pill and still.....All I know for sure is that I try to live a good and decent life, I try to be nice to everyone, I don't Eff around on my husband, I don't steal or cheat...but I do cuss like a sailor...so I can only hope that whatever happens to me in the end it's all worth it.