Right now I'm....

[potthole]

In the first paragraph you judge Shaun on one thing someone who has an axe to grind says about him and then in the next paragraph you tell us to not be judgmental?

Hmm.....

I didn't say anything about shaun other than I'm not sure he's a nice guy.

By accusing him of beating his then-girlfriend.

but remember they had a physical fight that resulted in at least a computer being broken. I'm not sure he was that nice of a guy.

For all we know, she threw the computer at him. Don't judge without knowing the whole story.

Sadly that common sense won't work on her. I've tried communicating that via PM with her, and the best she could respond with was calling me an a-hole.