08-11-2009, 01:57 PM
Okay I am catching up and at last tuesday's show where they are talking about these.
I use the leash with my kids. I had one used on me as a kid and i loved it.
Now I actually pay attention to my kids when they wear it and these things are great. My son is the one i need to use it with, the reason i use it is not for control, but it gives a little more freedom because he doesn't like holding hands all the time and he enjoys a little freedom. If he acts bad I make him hold my hand as punishment and he actually behaves because i give him that extra freedom. As the one caller said she was fully against them until she had a child and tried it. You have no idea how useful they can be unless you use it. Now if you can't control your child that is a different thing and you need to look into how to work that out instead of depending on it.
Who else uses them? I know I can't be the only one here who does it.
I use the leash with my kids. I had one used on me as a kid and i loved it.
Now I actually pay attention to my kids when they wear it and these things are great. My son is the one i need to use it with, the reason i use it is not for control, but it gives a little more freedom because he doesn't like holding hands all the time and he enjoys a little freedom. If he acts bad I make him hold my hand as punishment and he actually behaves because i give him that extra freedom. As the one caller said she was fully against them until she had a child and tried it. You have no idea how useful they can be unless you use it. Now if you can't control your child that is a different thing and you need to look into how to work that out instead of depending on it.
Who else uses them? I know I can't be the only one here who does it.
It matters not how straight the gate, how charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.
[spoiler]Shit, you took away the black bar. Put it the fuck back now![/spoiler]
I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.
[spoiler]Shit, you took away the black bar. Put it the fuck back now![/spoiler]