09-23-2009, 02:32 PM
My first instinct would be that you should go visit her for her benefit not yours. To let her know that you love her. But she probably already knows that, so that reasoning is moot. It's probably what I would do no matter the circumstances. However, I always say, never give advice to someone unless you have walked a mile in their shoes.
You need to do what you feel happy with yourself about doing. Two years from now, after she is passed, are you going to wish you could go back and do something differently? If you are satisfied with you inner being about the situation, for the love of Pete DO NOT do it just because you think somebody else thinks you should. This is between you and your "Aunt" and nobody else, no even your Mom.
My .02
You need to do what you feel happy with yourself about doing. Two years from now, after she is passed, are you going to wish you could go back and do something differently? If you are satisfied with you inner being about the situation, for the love of Pete DO NOT do it just because you think somebody else thinks you should. This is between you and your "Aunt" and nobody else, no even your Mom.
My .02
Hey doc, do you know the address of that place?
Oh, you know, I do know the address. It's at the corner of go fuck yourself and buy a map!
Oh, you know, I do know the address. It's at the corner of go fuck yourself and buy a map!