Bad Idea?

[sweet angel]

I think if you want it to happen and would get off on it, then it really wouldn't qualify as rape.

I personally think, if this is a fantasy for you, it's one that needs to be done with a boyfriend, someone you trust/love, in a controlled situation, with parameters set out.

I think this is more role-playing than rape. Rape would not occur in a "controlled situation, with parameters set out" -- that would defeat the purpose.

I realize people have many different fantasies, some I can understand, some I can't. This one I just can't fathom, but it's okay, because it's not my fantasy. Different strokes for different folks.

[Toronto Hottie]

Hmmmm, see, I think you're not using you're imagination Angel.

You sit him down, and tell him outright, as Rape has, it's a fantasy of yours to be raped.

You tell him: "It's gotta be real, no matter what I scream at you, that's part of the fantasy. I'll fight you, as in rape, I'll fight you off, as best I can, but you're bigger, and will always end up getting to fuck me in the end".

Paramaters: Dude, don't be messing up my face, causing any permanent physical damage, or making me bleed and stuff.

I'm trying to grasp this fantasy, and that's what I see. I don't believe RF wants to be bashed in the head with a rock, thrown down a flight of stairs, and fucked until she's inflicted with vaginal tearing and profuse bleeding.

Fantasy as opposed to reality.

In the fantasy......it's just a good hard slam you get no say in................

No?

[GMANN]

I don't believe RF wants to be bashed in the head with a rock, thrown down a flight of stairs, and fucked until she's inflicted with vaginal tearing and profuse bleeding.

god I hope not.....we have rent to pay here

[Crack Hitler]

Originally posted by GMANN

I don't believe RF wants to be bashed in the head with a rock, thrown down a flight of stairs, and fucked until she's inflicted with vaginal tearing and profuse bleeding.

god I hope not.....we have rent to pay here

luckily most sexual predators come with a list of things you can check off that you would like to have done to you.

personally if she really wants this, fine, how about a few of us grab some shovels, i'll kidnap her dog. we'll take her out to the woods slash her face all up then slam the shovel handles in every hole, don't worry about knocking out her teeth, she won't need them after her skull is caved in. but before the skull caving, while she is still tied up, i'll skin her dog alive in front of her so it really will be a horrible experience. because after all she is a friend to all of us and we wouldn't want to deny her the pleasure of a living nightmare.

stupid bitch

[RapeFantasizer]

1st of all, the site that was listed in that post wasn't even the site that had the message board on it, oh well, whatever. And I don't want to be tortured, I just wanna be raped. Besides eric, you like my dog and wouldn't hurt him.

[dru]

The raping would just be a bonus

[tricia]

so, why don't you just throw on some lingerie and heels, go hang out by the port authority and cut out the middle man

[header]

That would have more of a surprise element than preplanning the whole thing.

It would be like Christmas when it happens.

[sweet angel]

I understand most people can't figure out my fantasy, but it is a very common one, and there are plenty more than just one website dedicated to it.

I'm sure there's more than one pedophile too, but that doesn't make it normal.

You tell him: \"It's gotta be real, no matter what I scream at you, that's part of the fantasy. I'll fight you, as in rape, I'll fight you off, as best I can, but you're bigger, and will always end up getting to fuck me in the end\".

Rape victims don't get to give instructions. "Excuse me, could you please NOT anally violate me until my insides are destroyed? Thanks...I appreciate that."

She claims specificially that she wants to be raped. Like Crack said, you don't get a checklist. I'm with Crack on this one.

Maybe rather than bashing this or trying to figure it out, we should be urging her to seek professional help to understand why she has this fantasy and work through the issues. Or maybe she needs to volunteer at a rape crisis center and see firsthand the devastation it causes.

(I'm sorry I keep saying "she", but I've always had a problem with that screen name).

Here's a question...if a friend or family member of yours was raped, would your reaction be, "Wow, you're so lucky. That's always been a fantasy of mine."

On a different note, suppose she finds a friend to help her out with this fantasy. What's to stop her afterwards (when the reality sets in) from going to the police?

[header]

Everything you've said makes total sense and of course I'm not going to say bravo to someone that gets raped whether they 'wanted to' or not. (it's an oxymoron to want to get raped technically I know) but in a pure fetish nature the fact that people have fantasies such as this makes total sense.

I dabbled in psychology studies and while I don't consider myself any kind of expert at all I find it totally understandable that someone could have these feelings. At the same time most of the times fantasies aren't acted upon but when they are it sometimes can go horribly wrong and leave one or all parties of the situation in disarray.

Discouraging a trip to some guy's hefty plot of land for rape and some cash was the right thing to do. So kudos to all of you looking out for a friend's welfare while still making light of the situation in the good natured fun of the board.

Dr Header has spoken.