04-20-2008, 02:08 PM
If you really stop and think about it, it probably just boils down to the same old laws of supply and demand.
I'm not an expert on the gay community so I can't definitively say that this is the case, but its my theory. Like you, I am not gay, but I do have gay friends, and curiousity has gotten the better of me and I just couldn't keep my mouth shut and had to start asking questions.
I'm guessing that the guys who only want to be tops are the same as a girl who doesn't like Anal. If its not something you enjoy, don't do it. The reason that they are able to get away with it, is the fact that being gay or bisexual still carries a stigma, even in todays society. Its hard to meet someone and determine that they are gay. Not all gay guys act feminine. One of the guys in my group of friends is gay, but unless he told you, you would never know it.
Back to the laws of supply and demand, there are the bottoms. Since they obviously enjoy getting pounded in the ass and catching more than they like doing the pounding, or pitching, they need to find someone who will provide their bodies for the deed. I'm willing to bet that bottoms are not strictly bottoms, that they will play that role and switch from time to time when they need to.
Basically, if you want something, you are willing to sacrifice to get it.
I'm not an expert on the gay community so I can't definitively say that this is the case, but its my theory. Like you, I am not gay, but I do have gay friends, and curiousity has gotten the better of me and I just couldn't keep my mouth shut and had to start asking questions.
I'm guessing that the guys who only want to be tops are the same as a girl who doesn't like Anal. If its not something you enjoy, don't do it. The reason that they are able to get away with it, is the fact that being gay or bisexual still carries a stigma, even in todays society. Its hard to meet someone and determine that they are gay. Not all gay guys act feminine. One of the guys in my group of friends is gay, but unless he told you, you would never know it.
Back to the laws of supply and demand, there are the bottoms. Since they obviously enjoy getting pounded in the ass and catching more than they like doing the pounding, or pitching, they need to find someone who will provide their bodies for the deed. I'm willing to bet that bottoms are not strictly bottoms, that they will play that role and switch from time to time when they need to.
Basically, if you want something, you are willing to sacrifice to get it.