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| Sephiroth | posted on 08-02-2001 @ 10:03 AM |    | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00  | Well, you did it again old man, you fucked up yet another event that was supposed to be happy. My family decides to go on vacation to the Jersey shore. Being that there is alot of shit going on in my life, i was looking forward to this little vacation, get some time to clear my head. Then you start in with your inane bullshit. I dont know what your problem is. Maybe you need a ego boost. Maybe you are starting to realize that you a just a failure in your own life, and that you havent done one thing you can look back on in pride with. Whatever your reason, i refuse to be you living, breathing stress reliever. I stopped talking to you a long time ago. I figured if i dont bother you, you would at least grant me the same thing. but no. You make it a point to go out of your way to find something to fight with me about. Ever since i was forced to move back home, i've put up with your bullshit. Now, i know i cant leave home, because if i did, you would do the same shit to my little brothers and sisters. And trust me, i refuse to let them go thru the same shit i went thru. Im tired of it all. What was the the big fight about this time? A fucking bottle of Hairspray i knocked over and didnt pick up. Wow, i guess im evil, and im going to hell for it. I've never done anything that should bring you any shame. In fact, I've done and accomplished more in my 19 years of life than you have in your 46 years. Appearently, this is what is pissing you off. Because you know i am better than you. You know it and you cant stand it. Your "Im never wrong" attitude cant hack it, so you dump your shit on me. Well, i can take it old man. But i refuse to let your shit hurt the rest of my family anymore. Well, in conclusion Father Dearest, enjoy the concussion i gave you yesterday. Frankly, i cant think of anyone who deserves it more. From now on, maybe you'll think twice before you start a bullshit fight with me. Then again, you probably wont.  Well, it seems like alot of you fucking morons have questions. So, just Email or IM me so i can insult your intelligence. | ||||
| Drunken GW I Pissed on a Church to get this Status. | posted on 08-02-2001 @ 10:07 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Dec. 00 | Damn that sucks Seph, but it looks like you gave him his due. | ||||
This status is sponsored by: P®oJë©T M@¥hέm I Mod VG's ass! | posted on 08-02-2001 @ 10:10 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | ppsssst.... Seph, don't forget to say FU Buttmunch!!! ...it always makes me feel better Professional Slacker I should get paid for this crap... | ||||
| GrkqtOandAfan Claim staked by FTL. | posted on 08-02-2001 @ 10:10 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: No Wire Hangers!!!! sorry had to get that out of the way. And to think Dad's are usually supposed to be happy for their children when they are acheiving(stupid i before e rule not sure if I spelt that right...I before E always) in life. Glad you vented though Seph because it sucks having that shit build up. I totally know where you are coming from.  CIT (Cuties in Training): none, have room for 2 email me if you want to be a Cutie Yahman - Certified Cutie as of 6/19/01 | ||||
| Arthur Dent | posted on 08-02-2001 @ 11:51 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Nov. 00 | To borrow an idea from Grumpy, put a couple drops of visine in his coffee. Then you won't have to deal with him for a couple hours. ;) I wonder how many people actually read the text people put under their sig pics. | ||||
| tankGrrl24 | posted on 08-02-2001 @ 12:15 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jan. 01 | damn Seph.. All's I can say is I can sympathize. PS. They never change, all you can do is leave. And yes it can, and will get worse.  | ||||
USA Autoban Head Slap... Swim Move... | posted on 08-02-2001 @ 1:51 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Oct. 00 | quote: Maybe if you had an intervention, so that the two of you could come to terms with your cross-dressing problems, this could all be resolved to your mutual satisfaction.  | ||||
| GonzoStyle | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 12:15 AM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | nothing much i can say seph i went through the same exact thing but it reminded me of a passage from a D-12 song.quote:   If I could capture the rage of today's youth and bottle it Crush the glass from my bare hands and swallow it Then spit it back in the faces of you racists and hypocrites who think the same shit but don't say shit You Liberace's, Versace's, and you nazis Watch me, cause you thinkin you got me in this hot seat You motherfuckers wanna JUDGE me cause you're NOT me She-Mail Me Here | ||||
| crx girl Newbie! vg Y's me ugo girl Limey Mothercocker | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 6:02 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | it makes me sad to see posts like this, and thankfully i can't relate, but i hope this venting helped. don't sacrifice your life for your family, i know i'd do anything to protect my sisters from any pain, but they also have to grow and learn, and you seem to have turned out to be a fairly decent individual. also, not to be a patronizing bitch or anything, but have you actually said any of this to his face, i know it's hard, don't think i could do it, but maybe print it out and give it to him. communication is key, or so i hear. and if it's any consolation, my parents are always taking in strays and vagabonds, they'd give ya some love, i know they've got plenty lying around. feel better buddy :) An invasion of armies can be resisted, but not an idea whose time has come. --Victor Hugo regardless of my status, i am a nice person. no really, i am, i swear;) crack hitler belongs to me :) | ||||
| Doc Smith I Love Anthony Zinni | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 10:16 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Sep. 00 | Hey Seph, I went through the same kind of thing, and it is never easy to deal with. Luckily for me, it ended when he moved to Florida. The only purpose my father serves now is to give me an example of what not to do when I have kids. I resolved a few years back to break the cycle that his father started, alcoholism, abusivness, and uncontrolled rage. It's even worse when you have younger siblings since they still haven't gotten to the point where they can assert themselves against a father on a power trip. I know how it sucks to have to take responsibilty so young, when most people your age are just going to school and getting started in the world, and you have to shield your little brothers and/or sisters from him. You just have to make sure he knows he can't control you any more, it will eventually get though his head.  I can levitate birds. No one cares. This message was edited by Doc Smith on 8-3-01 @ 10:27 AM | ||||
| Shelle Bink True star of the celebrity softball game: the redhead in section 101. | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 2:04 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jul. 01 | If I had a dime for ever time I thought/said/otherwise that phrase "Hey Dad, Fuck You"... my God, I'd be rich. I know how it is to have a fucking loser father who takes all his shit and failures out on you. It's going to be worse when my sis moves out and I'm just stuck with my pushover mom and him. I need to get out of this place.  | ||||
| Brokenjaw Always will bow down to the power of the Faceman!!!! | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 3:23 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Nov. 00 | quote: Does this mean you wont be going? FUCKIN NICE 1 less family of bennies down the shore. LMMFAO Seph man it sucks what your old man does, I know all about it. Not less then a year ago my old man and me got in to a realy good one. Hell cops were called and evrything. That was not the first time either. I am 29, and my dick(dad) still acts like he knows all. Sepf it will never get beter, protect your brothers and sisters but when its time and you will only know when that time is leave and dont ever go back. TRUST ME on this.  Telling people their desire Satan's sitting there, he's smiling Watches those flames get higher and higher Oh no, no, please God help me! | ||||
| Tequila Fez claims this land in the name of Portugal! Why worry about the train if it never makes it around the tracks?? IrishAlkey wuz here!!! | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 6:41 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01 | What happens if you spill paint in the garage? AOL/AIM - oanda1027fm | ||||
| Lt Boogaloo | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 7:14 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Oct. 00 | Seph, I have been in your spot. I have done what you did. But until recently I was too much of an asswipe to just get up and leave. (My thanks to those people who got me off my ass) My advice, since you're 19 and can still enjoy your 20s....GET OUT. Don't stay there and think that it'll pass or that you'll stay to shelter someone else. If you get out, then you only have to go back to get the others out. And they'll follow your example, don't doubt that. If you want to swap horror stories, drop me a line sometime. One worthless human being, is that so much to ask for? -- Random Quote of the week. | ||||
| slackjaw The Cunt-Twat is my WORLD! The Great Pumpkin | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 7:36 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Seph, I know what it is like to have a father you don't speak to. I am, however, not in a position to be stuck living with him. You just have to do the best thing for your siblings and be there to protect them from the fallout. Oh, and extra special, to make Moron's day.... FU BUTTMUNCH!  School's out, shouldn't you have a job? The Slackjaw School of Satire and Sodomy has completed the removal of all carcinogens..... now they are Tequila's mess! We are officially back in business, first new adoptee gets a lifetime pass to the new fun park facilities! Yes, yes, Spermie World is up and running! Two Slots open. This message was edited by slackjaw on 8-3-01 @ 7:44 PM | ||||
| Lent Black Rock Coalition Do you have a basketball in your car? | posted on 08-03-2001 @ 7:48 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: May. 00 | I feel your pain seph. I only spoke to my day for one day in my 20 years. He has never really paid child support and get this...HE'S A Married MINISTER! I'm blessed to have a wonderful mother and it's just fucked up that we have so many fathers not owning up their responsiblities. If he dies, I will not shed one tear. He's never gave a shit about me, and I'll never give a shit about him! I refuse to fucking talk to him.  --Lent, the poster formerly known as Rowelentless-- | ||||
| JoyUTC | posted on 08-05-2001 @ 3:52 PM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 01 | Seph, get out of there, fast. The fighting isn't going to disappear. If you stay there, he'll think he's winning and your sibs will never learn to stand up to him on their own. You don't want them hiding behind you. You want them to speak up and defend themselves. Some parents never realize what they do to their children. Children are vessels: you can fill them with love, encouragement and respect or you can fill them with with self doubt, abuse, hate and loathing... if more people thought about that before becoming parents, we'd be better off. Stop the cycle in it's tracks and get out of there and live your own life. Don't be poisoned with all of this nonsense. You have to take control or else later on in your life, when you have your own family and you're looking back on your 20s... you won't remember anything but pain. I've witnessed countless friends and family members suffer disruptive home lives. I've not had the relationship with my father that you're experiencing, however, my older brother did have some major disagreements with my father. They were of the same temperament, so alike in lots of ways and looked just like each other. When we were little, my sister and I used to crouch behind my mother during some of the major battles. Getting older, it happened a lot less. Things were better between them, however not for long. In a random crime (a term I hated hearing the police use), he was killed in his apartment when he surprised a burgular. Dad has never gotten over that but he's always told me that he was proud that John had stood up to things and gave me and my sister good examples. He never brings up the old arguments but doesn't shirk away from his role in them, which humanizes him to my sister and I. I know that his point in doing that is to make sure we learned the mistakes NOT to make. I moved out when I was 21 (and in a latin household that just doesn't happen to single girls without the national guard being called in) because I wanted to be on my own. He took it as a personal rebellion against him and my mother and the arguments we had during the last two weeks prior to moving out made my life a living hell. It was never about that, but, whatever.... I've never regretted it. I hope that soon you'll be out of there and be able to think straight in your own surroundings. Always here if you need to talk, Seph. Good luck with everything.  "This is, This is Legal isn't it?" | ||||
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