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| TheGooch Mullet Master Yo Gooch, Moron here... how's that for some fucked up shit... Fez is giving you status... Karma sucks, huh? | posted on 01-28-2002 @ 3:19 PM |    | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00  | There is nothing more boring than a typical relationship. If there isn’t arguing, broken hearts, or emotional bruises…well, it was not a real relationship. There is nothing more droll than a simple fuck and leave, or a simple steady relationship, when instead, you can wrap both up in some muddled, painful frenzy of over a year. I am curious as to your stories of the kind of relationship that was just a sit-and-spin ride that leaves you staggering for days/weeks/months or just made you say: "What the fuck was that all about?!?!?!" Fucking Kate My own story comes from my first apartment, finally getting my own place with a female roommate who was Sales Manager for another division of the company I worked for. I should have known something was up when before I even moved in, we had gone to lunch, and she stated: "What's a good-looking guy like you doing single". The kind of thing that could have been conceived as a flirtatious advance, but I dismissed it, b/c I thought she was too hot to be my type. Kind of above my flying speed, if you will. The other reason I dismissed it was she had a boyfriend, I kind of casual affair with some keyboard-player to some band. Anyway, I moved in, and for a bit, it was quite peaceful...since she spent most weekends at boyfriend, and I was free to lure local Queens chicks from bars in relative peace and quiet. Since we worked for same company, and we had similiar likes and dislikes, we became fast friends. We'd go to lunch with the same group, befriend same people. She stillwas very flirtatious, but I figured it was just her way. But, once she started hanging around on the weekends...kind of pushing off the boyfriend, and we started hanging out, going to barsm, etc...the sexual tension seemed to build. So, obviously, you know where this is going to go...we managed to get together a few times, she began using me as piece of satisfaction b/c her boyfriend was a boring drag...kind of sated her needs, and my own in some warped form of relations, and this went on for a good 4 months of good times, till it got too heavy. Breaking it off was painful, prob for us bothn in different ways, but it was doable...and when she left the apartment to move near her boyfriend (same guy, though they had broken up then got back together), we ended up becoming closer as friends. But as she then broke up with her boyfriend permently, we fell back into mixing our needs again in a warped fashion. We didn't even know how to extract ourselves from the mess of our past, and compiled unhealthy attributes to the whole situation. Instead, we plunged onward, befriending the same people, hanging out together incessently, kind of shutting out other possible relationships, etc. We became partners in a writing magazine, and poured all our frustrations into a 72 page issue that we worked tirelessly to create. The mamagzine failed, as so many are wont to do. But, our past was so fucked up, we seemed to still wrap up different things into our friendship...and eventually it become to heavy to carry over this failure. She had found a new flame, both of us had anger at one another over different issue both personal and business...and we haven't spoken in almost 3 full years. What hurt most, was that to see it with hindsight, is how fucked up it got...and how we both didn't know better to either dodge those problems, or to recitfy them after the fact. What was more deep and penetrating, is that I lost a best friend, but gained my freedom to something that was bringing me down in other aspects of my life. Do I have regrets, too many to count. I feel guilty to how it flamed out, and to what I could have done to stop it. But, I also carry some virtol towards her, b/c she was just as guilty. Bottomline, we both stepped away probably a lot wiser. So, I've opened up something I haven't told anybody about since it happened. Christ, I haven't even examined it fully till I wrote it out just now. So, anyone walk into the same mess. What's fucked you up? B/C I'd be lying if I didn't say this whole thing did NOT fuck me up royally for quite a while.  Here's a tip that will save you alot of grief and time... Don't believe in and depend on anyone but yourself. | ||||
| WNEWs GIRL i don't have a mule but i have a cock Intercontinental Intergender Thumb Wrestling Champion CUNT ROCKETTE The new "third". AmyMohrBuddy One line in my sig is absolutely fucking disgusting, see if you can find it. | posted on 01-28-2002 @ 3:50 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Aug. 00 | wow its all still a little new for me, im still trying to recover everyone knows who im talking bout fucking brazilian, im not going into too much detail since he does come here and its his life as well the break up just came out of no where, we were happy and in love one week and broken up the next i really loved him and i gave him everything i got so i know after this im not going to give my heart and my emotions as easy as i used to, its really hard for me to trust guys now--thats why i havent started dating again yet WHATEVER BEN -----------------------------------------------  I LOVE THE SLASH and THE CRACK HITLER and even the REE "And he will raise you up on eagles wings, hear you on the breath of dawn, make you to shine like the sun and hold you in the palm of his hands" | ||||
| Norton's Victim | posted on 01-28-2002 @ 3:58 PM | | |||
| Psychopath Registered: Jan. 02 | quote: I had the same thing happen to me in October. She was so happy one week and we were having a great time and then all of a sudden she took me for a ride and told me she didn't want to be together any more. The thing that sucks is that I thought that I knew here because we were together for 2+ years and then I realized I didn't. I still don't know why it happened, but on the up side, I am having a great time now. I was upset at first, but I realize there is a lot to life and not to get so attached to something that it feels like everything is different when it ends. If that makes any sense. Usually I am just babbling.  "You can spend your time alone, re-digesting past regrets or you can come to terms and realize you're the only one who cannot forgive yourself. It makes much more sense, to live in the present tense." - Pearl Jam | ||||
| Lent Black Rock Coalition Do you have a basketball in your car? | posted on 01-28-2002 @ 4:09 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: May. 00 | I dont want to piss people off saying this. But sometimes I feel better staying single. I dont have to deal with certain issues at this point. Especially when i'm in the process of getting an educatation. Dont get me wrong, not having any girl by your side for 4 years is tough, but on the bright side i dont have to argue with people, give them gifts or any shit.  - AIM:roweLENTless2001 | ||||
| TheGooch Mullet Master Yo Gooch, Moron here... how's that for some fucked up shit... Fez is giving you status... Karma sucks, huh? | posted on 01-28-2002 @ 4:12 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | And, you can save $$ by avoiding psychoanalysis, too...more money for film. :D :D :D There are many good stories to, Lent. Anything that makes you learn something is worth having. Experiences early on will help you avoid them down the line. There is something to be said that ignorance is bliss...yet, experience is key (the other side of that coin). No relationship is perfect, and many flame-out in a way you don't want: But you want get the one that works without getting the ones that don't. Got to play the game. Here's a tip that will save you alot of grief and time... Don't believe in and depend on anyone but yourself. | ||||
| JackDan1974 | posted on 01-28-2002 @ 5:56 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Jul. 01 | quote: No girl for four girls you must by lotion, or vasiline in the econmy size.  | ||||
| Tequila Fez claims this land in the name of Portugal! Why worry about the train if it never makes it around the tracks?? IrishAlkey wuz here!!! | posted on 01-28-2002 @ 9:39 PM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01 | quote: You named the perfect date Kate?  AOL/AIM - oanda1027fm | ||||
| TheGooch Mullet Master Yo Gooch, Moron here... how's that for some fucked up shit... Fez is giving you status... Karma sucks, huh? | posted on 01-29-2002 @ 8:52 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Oh, am I gonna get you. And if you thought the border patrol was bad... :D :D :D Damn, i'm never gonna live that gift down...and I had no control over it. Here's a tip that will save you alot of grief and time... Don't believe in and depend on anyone but yourself. | ||||
| Tequila Fez claims this land in the name of Portugal! Why worry about the train if it never makes it around the tracks?? IrishAlkey wuz here!!! | posted on 01-29-2002 @ 9:18 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Jan. 01 | quote: Are you saying that you dont like the gift;) AOL/AIM - oanda1027fm | ||||
| Kingpin KEEPER OF THE FLAME. I have a little Wick. PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN. | posted on 01-30-2002 @ 10:48 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | But the big question here is: DID YOU GET ANAL????  E-Mail Me | ||||
King Shit *board owner* | posted on 01-30-2002 @ 11:23 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Veteran Registered: Feb. 01 | quote: So, you're whipped by a blow up doll?  I believe in the Faith... that can save me. I believe in the hope and I pray... That someday it may raise me... above these badlands Over The Limit | ||||
| TheGooch Mullet Master Yo Gooch, Moron here... how's that for some fucked up shit... Fez is giving you status... Karma sucks, huh? | posted on 01-30-2002 @ 11:29 AM | | |||
| O&A Board Regular Registered: Oct. 00 | Hey, at least it don't sing "Born to Run". :D Here's a tip that will save you alot of grief and time... Don't believe in and depend on anyone but yourself. | ||||
| GonzoStyle | posted on 01-30-2002 @ 11:45 AM | | |||
| Hanger-On Registered: Jan. 70 | No, Joe does a better froy, than froy himself. I'm Deep Inside Your Children. They Will Betray You In MY Name. | ||||
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